I'm 27 & I'm a terrible kisser. Is it too late to learn or is it something that can't be taught, a natural talent only?
Also, how important is kissing to guys?
Sometimes to avoid embarrassment, I avoid kissing (on the mouth) all together. I focus more on... body work
Upon further consideration, I think I figured out the issue.... I think french kissing is gross... The reason I am bad at it is because to do it "right" makes me gag... I don't know why, considering my lack of disgust for other oral experiences.... Am I just really weird?
15 Answers to "I'm 27 & I'm a terrible kisser. Is it too late to learn or is it something that can't be taught, a natural talent only?"
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kissing is important to some guys and less so to others........I can kiss and make-out with GF for a long time.....not as a prelude to more, but for sheer enjoyment.
Who says you are a bad kisser?
Of the 3 recent people I have kissed, they are all completely different from each other. None bad, just different.....one bites.......it was not bad either......! lol!
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forget everything when you kiss. kiss from your heart. don't worry if you would look weird or something. Don't worry if your drool would stick out. Just be natural. It's easy. and its a big turn on , believe me.
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Argh! Everybody is saying opposite things >_< let loose, control yourself ~weeps~ Maybe, I'll just shake hands, or give a high five ^_^
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Try what I said just once. If your partner didn't say something like," wow your awesome today" or something like that , KILL me.
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practice makes you perfect. just keep practice.. hehehe...
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That's what I was going to say.Like (1)
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Well all you can do is try, practice, practice, practice. At least you're lucky, it's fun practice.
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That's the thing, when I learned.... other things, practicing WAS fun and totally accepted by my partner due to it's nature.. I don't know how much guys are even into kissing...
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Who wouldn't want the excuse for extra make out time? Jeez, if they don't want to practice with you they need tossed like yesterdays garbage. Remember relax, it's supposed to be enjoyable!
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It's never too late to learn something or rectify a situation. Just practice. If you truly don't get better, ignore it and focus your efforts on improving other aspects of your sex life. I'll put it this way; If a woman can't kiss well but can go downstairs very well or allow me to do literally whatever I want to please her, kissing won't mean ****.
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Lmao... That's one way to look at it... as far as practicing... that's too embarrassing a thing to admit to someone b4 we are to kiss the first time!!
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This is where male friends who you are willing to kiss and exes come in. Genuinely ask for their time and help, and have them help you by practicing. And sweetheart, something you may not have ever considered is this: that is exactly the type of thing you want to share with a potential partner. Yes it may be embarrassing, but a mature man or woman will never hold it against you. Think of it as a litmus test or a filtering system for those who don't deserve your time. A similar situation would be a woman with small breasts. She can use that "negative" trait to eliminate any man who is too shallow to look past it. You can do the same.
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You're probably a better kisser than you think. Kissing is very intimate. If you go right to the body, that's fine if that's what you want, but it will be way more intimate if there is kissing. Just go with the flow.
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what did you do? vacuum their mouth? shoved your tongue down the throat?? that is not french kissing. don't vacuum either.
in another word, just that not all kisser are great. you would find a match. i like to tease when kissing.Like (1)
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I have been told I am a great kisser put it this way there is a man who I can turn on simply by kissing him.
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Just relax and enjoy. Stop worring about it, all will come natural to you in time. Have fun with the practice. Good luck.
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Time?!? Did you not read the very first 4 characters in the question!?!? haha, but still thanks for the advice!
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ok, no its not to late to learn, but who says your a terrible kisser ?
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It's just like anything else- driving a car or hitting a golf ball, etc. The more you do it, the better you get. Practice makes perfect.
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Ok sister - theres a few things you can do if you won't practise... Read some trashy romance - they describe kissing.. Maybe that will give you some hints. Just try not to dribble - and don't be worried about the tongue. Kissing with a little tongue is good - you don't want to choke him with it. Keep it simple. Kiss slowly. Think about each second, but don't try to think what he is thinking. Relax. Respond to how he is kissing you and kiss him back. If you can give a bj you can kiss. Especially if you can do that without biting. You'll be fine. You're over-thinking. Personally - I would practise. Maybe not with an ex or whatever - but go get drunk and have a random pash on a dancefloor.
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Well this is some sage advice lol. I've been reading romance novels since b4 I hit puberty (prepping *_*) I wish I could agree about the.. compartive skill you mentioned, but as I mentioned earlier, I'm no slouch in that area ~turns red~ I think the random stranger is probably the best idea.. but I'm shy lol... It's funny you mentioned the dancefloor too... I was just about mention, that I am just as clueless about following my partner in dancing. Something else I just avoid 6_6 But yeah I get what you are saying... application is just difficult lol
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I know, I know. Drink up baby, and go have some fun. Don't put so much pressure on yourself. Get some chicks together and dress up pretty and head on out. Where are you from? If you're near me I'll come dancing :) You just need to get your confidence up and lose some of those inhibitions.. Loosen that chinstrap yo :)
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try to control yourself
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dont use to much tongue and when you do its when you have s ex and dont go in to far with it
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It's a learned skill. Relax!
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Posted by madasalizard May 26th, 2012 at 5:29AM
What makes you so terrible? I believe you can learn to be a bit better.
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Reply by Yellowfitzme May 26th, 2012 at 5:36AM
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Reply by madasalizard May 26th, 2012 at 5:39AM
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