The reason you are so nervous around women is because you have an agenda, i.e., you want to get them in bed. Here's a new thought: drop the agenda. Be a friend. Present as a kind, affable guy who is not panting to get into their pants. Have a few conversations with them where you actively listen and don't brag about your accomplishments. Praise them for the things they have done and make intelligent comments about their ideas and plans, and you will have more women after you than you know what to do with.
Of course, once you get to know them as human beings, and not just life support systems for their genitalia, you may decide you'd rather have them as a friend than as a conquest. It's a risk you'll have to take.
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Don't put too much pressure on yourself. This isn't the last conversation you are going to have with a girl. Take a deep breath, be comfortable with yourself and with silences that may happen. You have a lot of time to hone your skills and there are a lot of girls out there. Good luck!
Well this may not be the answer you were seeking but i say, use it. Shyness can be a very desirable trait if presented in the right way.
If you want to get more confidence or "swag" try pretending you have it. Heaps of it after a while you somehow convince yourself you do. Worked for me :)
I think people who know what the are passionate about and can express it in ways that are shared understood counts for 10 millions time more than swagger. One's honest self, bring it.
i think you want to be with others .. your just shy
Just be yourself. Sooner or later it will all fall into place
hm well hmm im the master at this im so good with people but i tend to avoid them they all cause me trouble hmm how bout some confidence put it this way you can be anybody you want no one knows you dont be afriad were all people i bet you do got swag with women its easy tell them what they wanna hear you know good stuff in no time youll have luck trust me