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Dude. I don't get why everyone gets so worked up over this stuff. You probably spent your teen years all sorts of worried about how to label how you were feeling and being unable to give yourself "permission" I be yourself. No doubt you argued how to label everything.<br />
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Don't go through all that again. You're a grown *** man. Give yourself permission to be you. <br />
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Dating a woman (and eventually sleeping with one maybe) doesn't make you less gay if that's the label you choose to attach to yourself. You don't suddenly have to claim bisexuality if that doesn't fit. I can be gay and have sex with a woman... Because being gay isn't all about sex, now is it? ;)<br />
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Go for it! Be you. Be confident, and screw everyone who thinks you have to renegotiate yourself in order to do what you wanna do.

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I live in San Francisco. It's nearly impossible for me to find things weird. I am curious about one thing (if you don't mind answering)... You have interest in women now. All women? Or just a particular woman that holds your interest?

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It is a particular woman.

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What's your hesitation then? Ask her out : )

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We work together...and she's telling other coworkers that I'm hot and she wants to hook up...but its foreign for me to ask a woman out...don't know what or how to say?

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How about this... "Do you want to have lunch/dinner on ____________ (name a specific day/time). She's already into you so odds are she will say yes.
It might seem foreign to you (I honestly get that), but despite you feeling uncomfortable, do you like her enough to get to know her better? Try to relax. You're not asking her to marry you. The ultimate cliche: Just be yourself. You're lovable.

Are you concerned that you've only been with men and she wouldn't understand? Well, I probably wouldn't bring that up on the first date. Tell her when you are comfortable. Plus, no one wants to hear about past loves when they are hanging out on the first date. Just ask her. Betting she'll go. Most importantly, have fun!

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Thanks. Sounds perfect

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No. No one knows

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True. But there is only one way to find out (in my opinion).

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Not really. Sexuality is a continuum, and you are not stapled to one place on it at birth. Your taste in partners can develop and change, just like your taste in food or clothing.

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Well said...I'm only human

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Only? It's most people's best trait!

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I'm not sure it's weird; as we age and mature, so does our thinking and what we want.

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I'm not sure it's weird; as we age and mature, so does our thinking and what we want.

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Strange when i first red this itm sure it said you were a woman but not to worry its probaly the government adding something to the water again

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Yes..be careful

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Ok

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Lol. That's cool

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You must be feeling like you're missing out .

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I do feel that way...I don't have any gay Guy friends and I'm usually hooking up on the DL. all of my friends are straight and of course all they talk about is women.

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And that makes you curious ?
Maybe you'll reconsider your orientation...

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Still attracted to men....but have interest in a woman(let me specify)

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Interest only , or will you act ?

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She likes me and I like her...never had a lady so into me like her before...she's asked me to go out twice already

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Does she know you like men?

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