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I am 39 year old and still a virgin. Sometimes I am proud of being a virgin but other times I feel I am a loser-I know I am not. This world we live in make it hard to be one self.

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I'm about to turn 37 next week and in the same boat. Thought about one-night stands and perhaps a "friends with benefits" relationship, but I think I'll be clingy. I want to be with someone who loves me as much, and that doesn't mean I'm waiting till marriage.

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I know what you mean. I would like to met someone that see me and loves me. Is that too much to ask for?

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Hi, I'm working on a wonderful project about couples who haven't done IT yet, for whatever reason. We're working with the best relationship therapists in the country. Please message me for more details.

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Hi, I'm working on a wonderful project about couples who haven't done IT yet, for whatever reason. We're working with the best relationship therapists in the country. Please message me for more details.

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Imagine in 30 years time you are still a virgin.......cause you probably will be because I am, mainly because there is no help out there.

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I hope not. I am sorry to hear that.

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How do you get to be a 53 year old virgin and yet be in the age group 56 - 60? Which years of your life don't count towards being a virgin . . . ????????

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Nor a mathematician, it would seem . . .

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I have a female relative that is 50 and is still a virgin. She is pretty and smart too!

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Hi, I'm working on a wonderful project about couples who haven't done IT yet, for whatever reason. We're working with the best relationship therapists in the country. Please message me for more details.

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Maybe there are some older virgins---maybe they are not inclined to discuss their private lives on the internet.

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I'm a 33 year old virgin. Not proud. I had chances that I now in retrospect I would have taken. Weather they were smart or not.

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Agreed, at 44 this is very hard. I see that all this time I was simply afraid

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I am a 58 year old male virgin, can't find anyone who wants to even ttalk to me.

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Hi, I'm working on a wonderful project about couples who haven't done IT yet, for whatever reason. We're working with the best relationship therapists in the country. Please message me for more details.

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Why only couples. It would stand to reason these people aren't attached. Geez buy a clue

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I know I would not know what it's like to be 58 and a virgin, but I am 29 and a virgin and it still bother me an awful lot, but if I can give any advice it would be to try and determine what you are doing wrong that is causing women to not be attracted to you and to change that as soon as possible. Work on your self confidence and social skills. There ought to be quite a few single women in your age group seeing that there are a lot of divorced people in America now. I hope this helps..

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Learn game. Fight. If you must die than die fighting.

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I'm going to let you in on a terrible secret. What you are attracted to now, is what you will be attracted to later. You don't magically change what turns you on. Older men do not buy playboy magazines with 40+ women in them.

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I like to think that i am the oldest virgin on this site @ 67 years of age & male. Mine is a social phobia problem (loveshy) .....Is there a big cash prize on offer?

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PS.....now 68.

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Hi, I'm working on a wonderful project about couples who haven't done IT yet, for whatever reason. We're working with the best relationship therapists in the country. Please message me for more details.

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Well You are getting towards the end of your ability to even have a sexual relationship, but if I had to give some advise, then I would say that you should work on self confidence and social skills...this is obviously your problem..there is a wealth of information on the internet about improving skills with the opposite sex..I hope this helps you.

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Thanks for your ADVICE but I have been there done that got the underpants & am now to old to change....Good luck.

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I am involved in Orthodox Jewish circles. I know a number of never married virgins of advanced age.

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I'm 20 and I feel like its such a dirty thing and I'm a virgin. I call myself one. I'm sorry Ok. Lets just say I have had a bad experience. How can something thats is said to be very good be very bad at the same time. It can be so powerful and passionate, yet it can destroy your life.I guess its the same with everything else. The internet can be wonderful but it can also destroy you. Think something like Experience project and then think of all the bad people on the internet as well. You all probably think I am a mental case. I wish I could say more, but I am paranoid someone will hack into my account and see all this. I have never told anyone anything. I can't believe I am telling you all on EP, but I'm not telling you the whole story.

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Hey, you're not alone! And you're not a second class citizen. Depending on your birthday you might be younger than me.

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(John 64 yo married)<br />
I was until 52!, Was sexually incompetent in the 60s ,Hyper fundamentalist in the 70s-90. By the grace of God found my sexual blooming on the web of all places. Meet my future wife on aYahoo alt Christian group, been happilly married for 13 years. I look back in mild anger at what I missed, not just the sex but human contact and caring.

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That's the thing it isn't about the sex. It's the contact and caring. The sharing of life in general. I've never had that connection with anyone.

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Not to sound weird, but you might have aspergers syndrome..its something that I have and have been living with all my life. I grew up with an extreme social awkwardness and also tourrets syndrome, which caused my social life to be like a train wreck in slow motion..so I can understand how it is..it is miserable for sure and you spend a lot of time living with regrets, but you have to be very strong and not get depressed or angry. And yeah, it really is the human contact and feeling like a normal human being that you miss out on the most :/

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Since when are priests virgins?

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unless it's to your liking, at that point I'd PAY FOR SOME....

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It's not that simple.

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It really isn't that simple. But to be honest, you really have a point. I think a made a terrible mistake by not paying someone.

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Why do you want to find more virgins? <br />
Do you want to race them?<br />
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If I were you I would start looking for the opposite of a virgin, it may change your ummm mind.

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Be careful expectations goes both ways. Are u a virgin? Anyway, what are u looking for in the first place?

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Iam about to be sick!!

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Nuns. Mother Teresa for one.

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Yea...Right!

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It is , I must admit an interesting confession. You don't however, mention what motivated you in this. Religiousity, a lack of desire, strict social environment or just a complete disinterest. All seem to be a possibility.<br />
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Also I cannot glean from this whether you are distressed over this or boasting. In either case , I welcome you and admire your forbearance for I can assure you that it has never been my position in life not to sow a bit of seed whenever it was possible to do so.<br />
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I do wish you well and thank you for your candor.

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May I ask WHY you have decided to me a virgin?

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Honey, it doesn't work the way for us men the way that it does for you women. Any woman can cease being a virgin within an hour, regardless of how unattractive she is. Your attractiveness determines the QUALITY of the man you can get, and how much he will commit, not if you can get a man. But for us men, it is very different. Our attitude plays a tremendous role. And if our attitude is sad, vulnerable, confused, uncertain... Well I'm sure just reading that line makes you feel disgust. and absolutely no girl or woman will go for that, especially if you are an older man.

And it's a horrible vicious cycle. If you don't have confidence you can't get a woman, but if you can't get a woman your confidence is shot to hell, etc etc. it's a horrific agonizing nightmare. And we need sex and touch just as much if not more than you do. So you can imagine the torment and pain.

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