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I'm a lesbien mother of a 5y old boy. I'm married to a hetero man. How do I effect my son? Who can help me to guess?

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Asked By: MichelleMichael 31-35, F  5 months ago

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    MissSass - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by MissSass Nov 23rd, 2012 at 5:56AM

    Your sexual orientation is irrelivant to your son and his well-being so long as you are providing him with a stable and loving environment. It doesn't matter if you are a woman who is interested in men .. or a woman interested in other women .. if you always strive to give him the love and attention he needs .. he will grow and learn just like a child with parents who have a more "traditional" relationship.

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  1. Dannieal - 16-17 years old

    Reply by Dannieal Nov 23rd, 2012 at 6:01AM

    I totally agree with you ! best answer .

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  2. SilyOne - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by SilyOne Mar 14th, 2013 at 5:24AM

    I too agree with this answer. Teach him with dignity. Then he'll make his own decision when the time comes.

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8 Answers to "I'm a lesbien mother of a 5y old boy. I'm married to a hetero man. How do I effect my son? Who can help me to guess?"

  1. Todesstoss - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by Todesstoss Mar 30th, 2013 at 3:03AM

    You could teach him that you love both his father and other women and it's natural, good and sexy for the wife to take lesbian lovers. Encourage him to like watching lesbians when he is ready.

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  2. sport716 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by sport716 Nov 26th, 2012 at 9:56PM

    If you are bi I would wait on telling him if you plan on staying with your husband. If you are lesbian then you need to evaluate your relationship with your husband. Children are incredibly resilant to such things particulalry at his age. The teenage years is when coming out becomes more problematic

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  3. bobdiapered - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by bobdiapered Nov 23rd, 2012 at 6:39AM

    Help him be friendley to all and not judgemental. Let him have long hair and wear pink.

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  4. inspiration1 - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by inspiration1 Nov 23rd, 2012 at 6:29AM

    Why guess?
    Consult a psychic expert or some similar specialist if you are really concerned!

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  5. coolTimesAhead - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by coolTimesAhead Nov 23rd, 2012 at 6:05AM

    Guess what?

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  6. Dannieal - 16-17 years old

    Posted by Dannieal Nov 23rd, 2012 at 5:58AM

    i think your son is too young. you shouldn't tell him that you're a lesbian. maybe one day he will accept who you are or vice versa. it depends on how you take care of him.

    sorry if this not helping .

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  7. plungesponge - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by plungesponge Nov 23rd, 2012 at 5:54AM

    I'd say it totally depends on what he sees of your relationship with your husband. If it's positive, he'll probably just grow up saying "Being bi is no big deal, my mother and father had a wonderful relationship and she was bi". If you and your husband are having issues, he'll probably end up having to side with just one of you.

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