if she is in fact lesbian and not just exploring her sexuality Then thats the way it is and shes not the first gay to try hetrosexuality Of course u can be friends u are now but u will have to explore any feelings of jealousy that may arise or feelings or regret that some part of your life may have been wasted
if u want to be supportive just be that, let her start on her lifes journey without interference;
you are a very sensitive loving man and she is lucky to have u as a friend
tell your wife welcome to the tribe for me and i extend the same welcome to u We can always use as many as we can get
All humans have both feminism and masculine feeling, Some tendencies more than the other. At times, under depression or stress humans look for comfort at any person, male or female. After a while the bad feeling lead to satisfaction resolved and she think that is because that person helped her feel good. If it happen to be a female, than guess what, she lean to females for more help. The problem is she start to think she are a lesbian for enjoying the good feeling. There are a lot of women that are predator for lust. Like there are a lot of men that prey on men just to get there joint wanked.
The body does not care who satisfies the need. We have hormone chemical that need to be released by any stimulus. Can she control her body, mind, spirit and desires properly. Contact a specialist, who is trained in answering your question. Let people satisfy her feelings, and you satisfy her desires.
lol.................i hope u know if she is a lesbian you wont be able to participate in anything sexual. You seem excited as if she said look honey i am bisexual...............ba
well you two should figure out why your married. If she came out to you before or after. Find out if you wanna stay together or separate. Chances are she is only ever gonna want women in a romantic way, so make sure you know what you want too.
ok I hope you two find out what you want and it ends well.