shake weight? oO
Did you know this behaviour about him?
I was in the military, he needs help. Ask him to look for help, because he'll need to do it himself to get better. if you love him... you can go through this with him... if you can't take it anymore ...maybe its best to think about yourself instead.
This is d way it goes usual with husbands pessimist attitude. I feel like putting cloth roll in his mouth by stopping his unparliamentarily language. No matter how hardly we try convince them with soft words be it positive or negative opinion, they come up innovative misunderstandings of their own.
its better to keep away from them for some time like 2 - 3 months, or better get rid of them. Ultimately U CANT SATISFY A FOOL, OR A FOOLISH PERSON.