Start by thinking of the person who was dominating and controlling to you in the past. Do you resent this person? Can you forgive them? Often, we become the people we resent. I resented my mother for a very long time for the harsh disciplining she used on me. But then, I forgave her for it and I grew out of being an overgrown child with a beard.<br />
Start by letting go of that person in your childhood who was dominating over you. Forgive that person. Don't resent them. We become the people we resent. Stop resenting. Break the chain around your own heart and then you can break the chains you have put around the people around you.
Unfortunately, we men are very egoistic creatures. We need to feel needed and we need to be depended upon. We like it when the woman we're with depends on us. I'm not saying to be submissive. I'm saying that it could be 50-50.
Start remembering that men are better than you, and you have to do what they say.
See this is what I'm talking about, that back chat. You got to start remembering your place and maybe you'll keep a guy longer than a week.
Hahahahahaha!!! :D:D:D:!!. You're funny.
HI BreakerOfChains <br />
recognize what you want to do and aim to change. I quite like demanding women myself. Just saying. Controlling less so.<br />
Best wishes<br />
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I suspect the next few relationships will change it for you, if you meet "the one" who thinks you aren't his one because of those things.. They are likely to be hard lessons I am afraid
Hmmm. Sounds like the same problem I have. It could be because you feel like you lack control in your own life (hypothetically speaking), so in return, you try to control whatever you can.
There's no one really that trusts easily, trust is something that is earned. Having to take control early can be apart of the trust issue, since you've been there, it's like you will always be responsible no matter who wants to help.
Don't just find a guy who like it like me
Why change it, just find a naturally subservient male
get one that compliment your domineering nature then
You can try, but honestly, it's who you are, so...~shrugs~ find a compliant guy, I guess.
Not surprising. You're a chick, after all.
That's what I mean. What you need, you don't want, and what you want, you don't need. You inherently draw on chaos.
Er... just stop doing it?
I guessed you're doomed then