I'm sorry but i don't have a answer. I just have to keep on hoping we will both find that Love !!!!
The first step is putting yourself physically out there to be found and to find someone.
I know and I caught that:) But, it still rings true that you can't meet someone in your living room (unless you're talking online). It does have to be going out to bars/clubs ect. Make going to a coffee shop or grocery store during normal hours (NOT WAL MART! lol) part of your regular routine.