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I'm attracted to all genders and I'm constantly judged for it. What's so wrong about the way I love?

Yes, this includes FtM and MtF trans.

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18 Answers to "I'm attracted to all genders and I'm constantly judged for it. What's so wrong about the way I love?"

  1. ivorythorns - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by ivorythorns Jan 8th, 2013 at 10:39PM

    There is nothing wrong with the way you love what's wrong is that people would judge you at all, don't accept words from biased sources it's the only advice I can give you. Just hope for the day when people realize that they don't have to be cruel to a person simply because they can't understand what it's like to walk in your shoes.

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  2. mynameisnotreal - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by mynameisnotreal Jan 8th, 2013 at 10:33PM

    If this was true you wouldn't give a dam

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  3. DragonSpirit - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by DragonSpirit Jan 8th, 2013 at 10:36PM

    Well, you know, being told I'm going to burn in hell for all eternity every day by my parents kind of puts a damper on my day. Hard to ignore sometimes.

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  4. mynameisnotreal - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by mynameisnotreal Jan 8th, 2013 at 10:42PM

    You need to not listen to those words…block them out, as soon as you are 18 haul as s

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  5. kbgloves1 - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by kbgloves1 Jan 8th, 2013 at 10:35PM

    That's referred to as Pansexual and I dont think there is anything wrong with it...

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  6. DragonSpirit - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by DragonSpirit Jan 8th, 2013 at 10:37PM

    I know what it's called, but I couldn't ask my question if I had anything with the word "sexual" in it.

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  7. kbgloves1 - 61-65 years old - male

    Reply by kbgloves1 Jan 8th, 2013 at 10:43PM

    Because of your age? That's a bit foolish...draconian even....The EP censors are working hard to protect you

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  8. Debbie913 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Debbie913 Apr 25th, 2013 at 12:00PM

    People like to throw out their judgements and opinions and I find it annoying and best to ignore. Hard to ignore but good to try

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  9. Brategrev4 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Brategrev4 Mar 26th, 2013 at 9:52PM

    Yes I am male. And yes I have experienced this. I am also a Christian and so the experience for me too was difficult. Love unfortunately is hard to comprehend from anyone's viewpoint, because love has many facets. Honestly and truthfully, understand the depths of Agape Love first and then you can look into who you are attracted to. No your parents had no right to condemn you, especially by God's Word. "There is no condemnation in Christ Jesus" (Romans 8:1), but there is conviction, which should be felt not burnt into you. The stance of the LGBT has always left me empty, hollow, and miserable... God has not. I pray you can get some clarity away from this website. Talk to a elder, youth leader, pray read your Bible. If you yourself are not a Christian, I would still recommend these things highly and if not find an older non-biased friend and adult. The only thing wrong with that is it is not righteous. Perhaps you should not worry about love (Eros, Storage, Philia and Thelema) and focus on Loce (Agape).

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  10. wetcrotchboots - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by wetcrotchboots Feb 12th, 2013 at 2:26PM

    just do your thing,honey. if they dont like it,the hell with em

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  11. yantzeebtc - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by yantzeebtc Jan 18th, 2013 at 11:22PM

    "atraction" and "love" are the same thing?

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  12. DragonSpirit - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by DragonSpirit Jan 21st, 2013 at 2:32PM

    Attraction leads to love, does it not?

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  13. yantzeebtc - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by yantzeebtc Jan 22nd, 2013 at 6:32AM

    not necessarily, in the worst of the cases you can feel emotional attachment and sexual desire, but it could be still not love, oh! its so complicated! my best advice for you its to trust less in your "feelings" and more in your head (instead every stupid lovesongs sayings) you'll save a lot of pain

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  14. teenie27 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by teenie27 Jan 8th, 2013 at 11:25PM

    Not a thing is wrong with you!! Not a thing!

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  15. lessthanhero - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by lessthanhero Jan 8th, 2013 at 10:40PM

    You're fine, don't listen to them

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  16. BamPow - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by BamPow Jan 8th, 2013 at 10:37PM

    Since you already know people are going to judge you, you have to decide to not care what they think, or you could drive yourself crazy. You can't control the opinions of others. You can only control your reaction to it.

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  17. foreversingle30 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by foreversingle30 Jan 8th, 2013 at 10:37PM

    Not a thing live your life for you only

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  18. someonegotmyname - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by someonegotmyname Jan 8th, 2013 at 10:37PM

    There is nothing wrong with the way you love, but there is something wrong with the way people judge.
    Walk on... those people don't matter.

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  19. MisterMister83 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by MisterMister83 Jan 8th, 2013 at 10:37PM

    ive no interest in who your attracted to ..... people will judge anyone for anything

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  20. jo1m852 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by jo1m852 Jan 8th, 2013 at 10:36PM

    Nothing wrong with unconditional love

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  21. FlowingDragon - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by FlowingDragon Jan 8th, 2013 at 10:34PM

    Stop giving a ****.

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  22. Alykz20 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by Alykz20 Jan 8th, 2013 at 10:34PM

    Nothing wrong, sweet. Just the way some people are. So you're attracted to all genders? interesting.

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  23. reubles - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by reubles Jan 8th, 2013 at 10:34PM

    Oh what's love got to do, got to do with it
    What's love but a second hand emotion
    What's love got to do, got to do with it
    Who needs a heart
    When a heart can be broken

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  24. Lisabv2012 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by Lisabv2012 Jan 8th, 2013 at 10:34PM

    nothing let them judge, people will judge no matter what we all say or do. so just do you. it's only one life live it the way you see fit. SSCREW the others.

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