We have been dating for almost 5 months now. They dated for 7 months and broke up about 7 months before we started dating. He confessed that he still had lingering small amounts of feelings for her in the first month or two of our relationship but said I don't need to worry about it cuz she lives far away and has a new bf. I don't care about her availability I care about whether he is still in love with her. I talked to him about it and he said he had a hard time letting go cuz she was the first person he was serious about and he couldn't help that he met her before me. He said he thought we were a better match cuz I'm ready to settle down and so is he but she wasn't. He still acts weird when he talks about her (which isn't a lot) and I don't think they are talking right now. Do you think I should keep dating him and give him a little more time? Do you think he is over her?