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Seems to be the majority's opinion.
SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 25 Answers Dec 21, 2012 in Image & Weight

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The twerp who said that needs another box of kleenex. WE know you are a treasure. Mr Mindwarp is probably pissed because his mother made him take out the trash from his room. He needs those tissues for his fantasy women.

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youre beautiful spirited one

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Hun beauty is in the eye of the beholder I prefer real women with curves I find them very attractive. Don't let this person put you down as I'm sure your as beautiful in the inside as you are on the outside :)

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Not right at all. "Mindwarp" ? Sounds more like a Warped Mind. :(

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hence why the majority of people are stupid. F those people anyways.

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My third wife weighed more than I do. I'm 5' 10" and 200 lbs. She was 5' 6" and I've no idea what she weighed as it was very closely guarded secret. One time (and one time only) a few months before we got married she admitted that she weighed more than me. We were only married for a few years and the divorce wasn't because of her weight. It was because she fed all her money to "one-armed bandits" (eight liners) and I wouldn't let her do the same with my money, nor would she admit that she had a gambling problem and seek help.<br />
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Your "question" reminded me of an article I read this evening:<br />
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http://goo.gl/tEoKE<br />
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I don't think EP makes links clickable but you can copy/paste it if you like. The link takes you to a copy of an article printed in a newspaper in 1912 and it refers to the "perfect" woman, found among the coeds of Cornell University. Her name was Elsie Scheel. She was 5' 7" tall and weighed 171 pounds.<br />
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I know, some folks are cruel and it's hard to have any self esteem if you buy into the "accepted" norms that you grew up with but perceptions of social "norms" are totally subjective things which vary from nation to nation; sometimes even from city to city.<br />
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When we feel unsure of ourselves and insecure, for any reason at all, it creates an aura around us which people can't help but pick up on. It's like a self-fulfilling prophesy; we feel untouchable, consequently nobody will touch us.<br />
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What you've got to do is rise above your doubts and insecurities. You are as you are and you must learn to accept and love yourself as you are. When you start to believe in yourself, others will react to your confidence and find you attractive. It's really that simple.<br />
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I don't believe in revenge, but I do totally believe in justice because I've seen it go down again and again in my 64 years. People who are mean spirited and hateful usually wind up all alone, sick, dying and friendless. That's justice, and I'm serious, it's something you can believe in. You don't have to let negative people get to you. You can actually feel a little sorry for them because you know where their lives are headed and they don't have a single clue.<br />
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So you think you're fat? So what? I'm fat and I'm also old but I have a wonderful life. I wouldn't change a minute of my life and I wouldn't be thirty again at gunpoint. Us happy fat people are doing just fine thank you. We'll feel a little sorry for you if you don't wise up and get with the program but there's nothing we can do. That's life. You only get one and only you can live it.

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really? you don't look fat :/

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I am, I promise.

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regardless, if you are or not, you shouldn't die in a fire and if anyone says that to you, then they have severe issues. You're really pretty, you remind me of Amy Lee :)

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That's very sweet and a bit too generous of a comparison! But I appreciate it, thank you. :)

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no worries :)

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Why would you want to DIAF? The guy who said you should sounds like an *******.

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Nah.<br />
Just ignore the a$$hats.

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You are beautiful the way you are.

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Just wondering who drove you to feel like that :

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Some dude named Mindwarp on here.

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I'm betting dollars to donuts he has no pics of his own

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Yeah, he has at least one- his avi.

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I wouldnt let some one online hold that much power over you(says sensible me) Or he can eat bag of red hot *****, several in fact(says pissed off me)

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I'm fat, but I rock this. I am kinda cute, quirky, fun, realistic, smart, independent, confident, loyal and so loving. <br />
There's no reason for anyone to think unkindly on someone just because they're a little pudgy!

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I agree, too bad the world doesn't.

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Well, if it helps at all, you're very pretty.

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That's very kind, thank you.

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:/

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Dude left a remark that I'm fat on my photos. I'm releasing a little negative energy here.

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what bloviatingbufoon said

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Do Isabella a favor?

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you need to be happy and love you for who you are. Only then will you change what it is you feel that you need changed.

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Doesn't do any good when the world hates you because you weigh more than they think you should.

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my ex gf was slightly over weight and she was depressed about it and never changed but I tried to love her anyway (I say tried because in the end her depression caused her to break up and call it quits long complicated story of course)

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Diet in a freight........car!

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Depart in a frenzy?

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Oh, I see above it's die in a fire. That's way too extreme! Society can be very cruel to larger people though. Take no notice of people who are cruel for the sake of it, especially on here. Why would you care what they think?!

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Just sensitive to it because I honestly cannot control my weight, I really *do* have a disorder. Sucks to be looked at as disgusting and lazy and a pig when you don't live like that at all.

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I'm much larger than I used to be as well. Ever since I started taking anti-depressants weight control has become very difficult. I'm sure there's a link there - for me, anyway. It's a shame for you that other people don't always seek to understand or care but it's probably just ignorance which causes that. Unfortunately being overweight is generally considered unattractive so it's a bit of a no-win situation really. A lot of people won't judge you by your weight though so hopefully you can ignore the views of the others.

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Yes.

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