No one should "get used to" another being mean.<br />
Tell him how you feel. Tell him to respect your feelings, joke or no joke, it hurts you. If he actually gave a dammmm he would back off.
That is a classic abuser remark after they hurt you and you react. "I'm just kidding" " you are too sensitive" "You can't take a joke" They never acknowledge your feelings. They blame the person they hurt. Saying hurtful things to someone is NOT love. He is just going to get worse if you stay with him. The worst possible thing you can do to yourself is "get used to him being mean" You don't deserve to be treated that way and he has NO right to hurt you.
DUMP that JACKASS now! he's a pig. unless you are addicted to escalating drama, you'll drop him like the steaming turd that he is. quit asking, quit "deciding", quit struggling, whatever you do DON'T get used to it!<br />
or you can end up miserable or dead -- your choice.
sounds like an ***. dump him.
if your boyfriend is mean to you its time to MOVE on!
I'm with the "Dump the A-hole" crowd. And whatever you do, **don't** tell yourself, "Oh they just don't understand how special and different he is." That's how girls and women end up damaged or worse.
Kick IT to the kerb because thats no man thats a coward!!!
Tell him he doesn't deserve you if he is just going to be horrible and get rid of him there are plenty more fish in the sea
Oh, abuse you and then claim it was a joke. Classic abuser/racist/creep behavior.
make him chase you for a couple of weeks. if he's worth your time he'll chase u
Worth? your time? How about your LIFE? and that ain't no joke..
everyone is worthy of respect, and it sure as **** don';t sound like he has it even for himself, and if so, he will never have any for you..