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Im I Overreacting?

My boyfriend is locked up right now somewhere where he cant get visits and only 2 phone calls a week. Usually he calls me both times a week because his family is able to visit him. This weekend i havent heard from him at all nor has he sent me a letter? i usually get letters all the time. The last time i talked to him was last monday. I talked to him mother this week and she said he called her twice and told her to tell me he loves and miss me. I just think thats a little messed up because she visit him saturday why would he call her when he can see her on visitation. Why wouldnt he call me since he cant see me. I just need some advice on the situation before i loose my MIND. Please no crazy comments this is really serious to me. Thanks.
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Posted Sep 11th, 2009 at 2:55PM
Honey, please leave him! I've been there! Done that! You can do so much better than wasting your time away on him! Pick a man who has got his life straight and is not selfish to put you through the waiting game while he sits in a cell because of his stupid decision making he is now paying the consequences for. ...

My loser EX is STILL IN JAIL since 2006. Just got another 2 years.. I left him in 2007... It was his 2nd time in jail since we've been together.. He said he's "changed" "would never do it again".... THEY ALL SAY THAT! ....
SO GLAD I LEFT HIM for a BETTER MAN! that I call my husband =]

I know you wont listen. I didn't listen to anyone either.. Hopefully eventually you will notice it..
when you realize.. you are not happy, and quite sick of his sh*t, and then you'll know you deserve better.
Good Luck.
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Posted Sep 11th, 2009 at 9:25AM
No..dont react to this... Just he might have had something important and urgent to share with his mom at that pt..so he mite have used his two phone calls to her..I bet he will call u soon...And most important thing in love is trust..TRUST UR BF!
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Posted Sep 11th, 2009 at 9:25AM
She is his mother. That bond is hard to break, nor should it ever be done. she provided security and comfort when he was a child, and obviously he needs that feeling now. It's no reflection on you.
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Posted Sep 11th, 2009 at 9:25AM
I guess its hard to know where his head space is at the moment. It is only one week. See if he calls you when he is ment to next and talk about it then. He wouldnt be telling his mum that he loves and misses you if he doesnt :)
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Posted Sep 11th, 2009 at 9:45AM
When my son was locked up, whenever he was going to call we made sure to have his girlfriend there with us too. That way whoever he wanted to talk to would be there. Worked pretty good for us.
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Posted Sep 11th, 2009 at 11:16AM
Since it's only been this one week, I'd say don't worry about it. He probably has alot on his mind right now,and maybe he just needs his mom. If it continues to happen, then that's another story. If his mom goes every Sat, is there no way you can go along as well to visit?
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Posted Sep 11th, 2009 at 4:52PM
I realize you are aching over this and your heart is probably in knots but it sounds like he really does need time to get his stuff together. If he's in this situation he's either in jail or in a locked hospital ward - either place he needs to think about what he's done or needs to do, not whether or not you are upset because he didn't call.

It may be hard not to 'freak out' because he doesn't call or write but if your relationship is love and that love is strong it will prevail. If not - it's time to move on. Write - even if he doesn't - as long as you still care for him. Otherwise let him go.
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