Im I Overreacting?

Honey, please leave him! I've been there! Done that! You can do so much better than wasting your time away on him! Pick a man who has got his life straight and is not selfish to put you through the waiting game while he sits in a cell because of his stupid decision making he is now paying the consequences for. ...

My loser EX is STILL IN JAIL since 2006. Just got another 2 years.. I left him in 2007... It was his 2nd time in jail since we've been together.. He said he's "changed" "would never do it again".... THEY ALL SAY THAT! ....
SO GLAD I LEFT HIM for a BETTER MAN! that I call my husband =]

I know you wont listen. I didn't listen to anyone either.. Hopefully eventually you will notice it..
when you realize.. you are not happy, and quite sick of his sh*t, and then you'll know you deserve better.
Good Luck.

No..dont react to this... Just he might have had something important and urgent to share with his mom at that pt..so he mite have used his two phone calls to her..I bet he will call u soon...And most important thing in love is trust..TRUST UR BF!

She is his mother. That bond is hard to break, nor should it ever be done. she provided security and comfort when he was a child, and obviously he needs that feeling now. It's no reflection on you.

I guess its hard to know where his head space is at the moment. It is only one week. See if he calls you when he is ment to next and talk about it then. He wouldnt be telling his mum that he loves and misses you if he doesnt :)

When my son was locked up, whenever he was going to call we made sure to have his girlfriend there with us too. That way whoever he wanted to talk to would be there. Worked pretty good for us.

Since it's only been this one week, I'd say don't worry about it. He probably has alot on his mind right now,and maybe he just needs his mom. If it continues to happen, then that's another story. If his mom goes every Sat, is there no way you can go along as well to visit?

I realize you are aching over this and your heart is probably in knots but it sounds like he really does need time to get his stuff together. If he's in this situation he's either in jail or in a locked hospital ward - either place he needs to think about what he's done or needs to do, not whether or not you are upset because he didn't call.

It may be hard not to 'freak out' because he doesn't call or write but if your relationship is love and that love is strong it will prevail. If not - it's time to move on. Write - even if he doesn't - as long as you still care for him. Otherwise let him go.