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Reenie101 Reenie101 18-21, F 4 Answers Apr 2, 2010

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I hear you. This has been an experience in my life more than I wish, but I can truly say I don't regret it.<br />
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Why? Because it finally forced my survival instincts to kick in, and forced me to reach out to others, something I really needed to learn and to do. <br />
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It's very unnerving, and I needed to learn that as well. When others reach out to me, my first thought nowadays is, "Wow, I remember how hard it was for me to speak up about my needs. Let me approach this delicately and sympathetically no matter what I end up doing or not doing for them. Sympathy was more effective and helped more quickly than any tangible favor I received. Let me give that first."<br />
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My sympathies to you, and my respect for you for reaching out. Prayers are surely being said on your behalf. That connects you to others, and they are caring for you right now. Some will never post a reply, but they are feeling for you right now. <br />
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So banish your thoughts of loneliness. It's a feeling, but it's not true. Please, keep reaching out. That in itself will cause change.<br />
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Also, be open to what your body is telling you. That is not a New Age technique, but simple wisdom from old folks. If you crave something that is not bad for you, obtain it. Ask for it. Try to believe that you will come through this time, even if you don't know how.<br />
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And try reading some history. Other people have overcome amazing things. It will give you hope! Seek it, I urge you.<br />
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:) Here's to your healing, friend.

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