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I'm in a fwb relationship with my boss who's in a long distance relationship and I'm falling in love. Help...

Their relationship is "open" and she lives in Europe. I'm not sure if it's love, or just an attachment to the attention...

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  1. inthebelljar - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by inthebelljar Nov 28th, 2012 at 6:52PM

    you cannot have a fwb relationship with your boss.. he is your boss, not a friend.. and especially since he is in a relationship already.. it is a situation you shouldn't have gotten involved in since it cannot end well.. hopefully you can get out of it without losing your job..

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  2. TIMeNIHIL - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by TIMeNIHIL Nov 28th, 2012 at 6:47PM

    cut it off. now. otherwise there will be a world of pain.

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  3. TIMeNIHIL - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by TIMeNIHIL Nov 28th, 2012 at 6:49PM

    amen to that, sister girl.

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  4. Serenitree - 66-70 years old - female

    Posted by Serenitree Nov 28th, 2012 at 6:50PM

    FWB, with someone who is already in a relationship is cheating on someone. You can't be basing your happiness on someone else's pain, and also, if he will cheat on his present relationship, what makes you think he won't cheat on you too?

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  5. JustPlainBarb - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by JustPlainBarb Nov 28th, 2012 at 6:48PM

    That's one very unprofessional boss. No professional person would get involved with an employee. Tacky.

    You're really just setting yourself up for problems ... and maybe putting your job at risk too.

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  6. Ikeepittogether - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Ikeepittogether May 8th, 2013 at 8:51PM

    I've been there...try to separate yourself because the hurt gets worse. I went thru a depression behind it. It's hard to break away however gets harder the longer you're in it. I was in NY and he was in LA.

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  7. benetal - 70+ years old

    Posted by benetal Dec 10th, 2012 at 5:44PM

    tell me Did he tell you its open? ask him for her # and ask HER. If he refuses he has already answered!

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  8. phoenix2011 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by phoenix2011 Nov 28th, 2012 at 7:12PM

    your not in a friends with benifits you are having an affair.

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  9. fragments - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by fragments Nov 28th, 2012 at 6:55PM

    Eww you better cut that off quick. Don't let it go on any longer. If you continue then you will have nothing but heartbreak and sadness.

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  10. Whattado - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by Whattado Nov 28th, 2012 at 6:52PM

    Give it up - you're discovering too early just one reason why it's bad to have a relationship with anyone where you work, not just your boss

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  11. lottalatte - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by lottalatte Nov 28th, 2012 at 6:49PM

    Please tell me he's not married at least...

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