Register

I'm in a rough marriage. How do we rebuild trust, and work towards a healthier, happier relationship?

Q&A Home   >  Dating & Relationships   >  Struggles
Ask Question

Asked By: anonymousconfessions 36-40, F  8 months ago

Is This A Good Question? (1)

Add an Answer to "I'm in a rough marriage. How do we rebuild trust, and work towards a healthier, happier relationship?"

Send me an email when there are new answers to this question

    Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):

    1963d - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by 1963d Sep 5th, 2012 at 11:25AM

    It is hard to rebuild trust, what happened??

    [ Reply ] | Like (1)

  1. anonymousconfessions - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by anonymousconfessions Sep 5th, 2012 at 3:20PM

    To make a long story short, we had very different ideas on the boundaries of a relationship. It caused lies, deceit, rejection and resentment between us. We both accept fault in our troubles. We just want to get back to where we once were....and finally be able to enjoy each other and our love.

    Like (1)

  2. 1963d - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by 1963d Sep 6th, 2012 at 7:14AM

    K then both are willing so reestablish those boundaries and start from scratch. Slowly you both will start trusting and releasing the old thoughts of rejection, deceit and resentment, BUT if one of you or both of you are not totally commented to this you are wasting you time baby....just saying ox good luck :)

    Like (1)

6 Answers to "I'm in a rough marriage. How do we rebuild trust, and work towards a healthier, happier relationship?"

  1. rottenrobi - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by rottenrobi Sep 5th, 2012 at 11:48AM

    It all comes down to complete disclosure and if you both still want to work on it after that? Honesty and communication, and making time to do talk. I also always encourage sexual intimacy, for fun.

    Like (1)

  2. anonymousconfessions - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by anonymousconfessions Sep 5th, 2012 at 3:09PM

    I'm all for complete disclosure. However, after all we've been through, he is very defensive, and its difficult to speak to him while walking on egg shells.

    Like (1)

  3. spin1echo - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by spin1echo Sep 5th, 2012 at 11:33AM

    Rebuilding trust can prove to be a daunting task. However, counseling and honest communication could help.

    Like (1)

  4. rknst74 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by rknst74 Sep 5th, 2012 at 11:29AM

    Lay it all out and start fresh..therapy can help too.

    Like (1)

  5. IMAGINATIONATWORK - 36-40 years old

    Posted by IMAGINATIONATWORK Sep 5th, 2012 at 11:27AM

    Honesty and communication

    Like (1)

  6. magiceyes28 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by magiceyes28 Sep 5th, 2012 at 11:26AM

    I have no clue, but when you figure it out pass it along. I'm also in need of this answer.

    Like (1)

Ask A Question

Related Questions to I'm in a rough marriage. How do we rebuild trust, and work towards a healthier, happier relationship?

Answers to questions are provided for entertainment purposes only. You should never use answers to questions provided here to replace professional advice, such as from a doctor or lawyer. This page is for providing answers to the question "I'm in a rough marriage. How do we rebuild trust, and work towards a healthier, happier relationship?"