Is your love deep enough to risk ruining the relationship between brothers?
I think blood is thicker than water...
IF THEY ARE BROTHERS -THEY HAVE SAME GENES...YOU WILL END UP HAVING 2 EXS IN ONE FAMILY...
Yes life is too short to waste time I was in love with a guy for three years he didn't want me finally he told me he loved me and wanted me to be with him and when I got to where he was I fell in love with his brother almost imeadiately it. Didnt work out and the guy left me and now his brother and I are together
What did you do? What happened?
How did it go for you? I am in a similar situation... and I told him and had the most amazing two days of my life (me & the brother)
i think that even though you may all be good friends now, if you were to tell the truth to your ex boyfriends brother he won't be able to go through hurting his brother, it would upset there friendship and if you did love him, then you should accept the fact that they are brothers, or put yourself into their position if you had a sister, your boyfriend broke up with you and all was okay, and then he suddenly told your sister he loved her , what would you do?<3
i hope it all gets worked out..
ps. Your current ex will just have to deal. If the tables were turned, I'm sure he'd take you into consideration, but his own situation and desires would be the deciding point. Hell...if you really feel guilty, why dont you talk to your ex about it?
Love is a very strong word. Maybe you are infatuated with him because he is not your boyfriend, so you dont know him quite as well and just add all your perfect fantasies to his character?
My advice would be to try to stay well away from both of them, because you will probably end up making all three of you very upset if you do tell him you love him.
The whole situation seems way too incestuous and fraught with the possibility of various kinds of trouble. Keep it to yourself. Love is difficult enough without it happening in this kind of situation. If he starts actively courting you, that is different, although even then I would be cautious.
Tell him, what's the worst that can happen? You've already broken up with the other guy....go for it! :)
Please don't live your life by what others think and feel.....you have feelings too. For crying out loud, you're in LOVE! You're ex will have to get over it.