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I'm meeting him for first time tomorrow for a few drinks. I haven't been on a date in a long time! What do I do? How do I not be so shy? What do I wear? Lol. It's casual date, I have trouble communicating with guys when on date! I'm too damn shy! They usually do most of the talking.
SiennaRain SiennaRain 26-30, F 16 Answers Dec 7, 2012 in Dating & Relationships

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Well, he asked you out, so he was so interested in you that he risked rejection. So, relax because being shy is being fearful and you have that one fear out of the way.<br />
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Dress comfortably with something that flatters you. <br />
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Don't over think things. Being shy I played mind games of what-if with myself, and from you question it looks like you do also, so lock that uncertain little teenager up for the night. Enjoy it that he is interested in you (you must be flattered, aren't you?) Just think that here is an interesting man who likes your company and wants to get to know me.

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don't worry, you can not learn swimming with out single drown..

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Take a big breath. He already likes you are you wouldnt have a date with him. Wear something cute that is comfortable. If you are comfortable, you will feel more at ease. He already knows you are shy. Let him ask you questions and you will feel better talking. If he is asking, then you will just automatically answer him, thus warming up and becoming more relaxed. DON"T order anything to eat messy. Take mints or a toothbrush..gum whatever for after the meal ...Go to the ladies room and check your teeth...You really would be embarrassed to find out you have food in your teeth...<br />
BE YOU!!! Did I say...well hell girl, he ALREADY likes you...<br />
BREATHE!! Remember to breathe and have fun!! ( I am shy as well, I understand)

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Ohh thanks babe! That helps. I'm that shy that I turned down his dinner offer coz not comfortable to eat in front of him lol so I said drinks instead lol, thanks! X

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I know..I am as well. I know very very well.
Painfully sometimes..

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Treat it like its just a hook up. Don't talk about anything serious and don't get serious there's no point

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Yeah I don't want to come across too serious, but not want to be too easy either. I'll just have fun I guess.

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relationships are pointless and people are untrustworthy. just have fun and dont fall for anyone

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He's probably nervous too. So .. don't worry so much.<br />
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All you can do is be yourself! Wear what is flattering and comfortable. <br />
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If you're uncomfortable talking .. just ask a few questions. People love to talk about themselves. <br />
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He must already like you or you wouldn't be having the date. Just enjoy getting to know each other. It's probably going to be much easier than you think.<br />
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Have fun!

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Thanks Barb! :)

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Lol damn girl I cant help you with all that. lol

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Oh why not pal? Be good to hear what a guy thinks too

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I can only tell you what an American man thinks. You good enough already whatever else is a bonus :)

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Aw thanks! :) lol @ what American man thinks, interesting! I'm curious now.

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just be your self and just pretend there one of your friends. or even more than just that... ;) lol idk if that was cheesy cause I'v never been on a date sorry. but i'm sure you will do fine.

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Not cheesy I reckon that'll help! Thabks

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very simple be yourself,.shy is lovley.wear something that you like,and enjoy,best of luck

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Thanks Staire

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Just be yourself , shy is GOOD !!!

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I always pretend like were married and then im very comfortable. It works!

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Haha! That's a good idea, guess it helps to make you feel comfortable when you pretend for a bit! Thanks

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Have a glass of vodka before.

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Or 2? Lol

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2 short glasses might be OK, but if it is a drinking date, You may wander later, what actually happened?

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just count 1-10 and feel confident...smile and chill

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cocaine?

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just keep swimming, just keep swimming, just keep swimming, swimming, swimming

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