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I'm really really shy and nervous about kissing for the first time. How do you go about it? Does it come naturally?

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  1. KingofSwords - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by KingofSwords Apr 23rd, 2012 at 2:03AM

    I'm not giving a 16-17 year old child tips on kissing. This is something you should be asking of your peers after you reach 18.

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  2. theologian - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by theologian Apr 23rd, 2012 at 1:30AM

    It comes pretty naturally. I just got my first a few months ago, and was amazed how easy it really is. Just pressing lips together is a beautiful thing - tongues and nibbles and all that came much later in their own time. Kissing, it seems, is one of those human things that we instinctively know and move towards.

    Good luck!

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  3. Ballarine - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Ballarine Jul 13th, 2012 at 1:32AM

    I practiced on my arm. When I did it for real, I think it did come natural.

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  4. RickISAmasing - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by RickISAmasing Apr 23rd, 2012 at 2:00AM

    Kissing is a very natural experience. Dont force it just relax and let your lips meet gently then slide them around like you are massaging your friends lips. If you feel the urge, tickle your partners lips with your tongue then slip your tongue into your friends mouth and explore. Also, use your hands and body to hold and caress your friends head and body. Expect and allow your body to be held and caressed also. Kissing is not just for lips. You can kiss on any part of your friend. Enjoy it often. Its even better without clothes.

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  5. Kayakker - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Kayakker Apr 23rd, 2012 at 2:00AM

    Scares the crap out of me.. I'd go with the wide wide open mouth style a lick on the face is always good too...

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  6. grayseaprincess - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by grayseaprincess Apr 23rd, 2012 at 1:28AM

    It depends. How much do you like this person? How much does heshe like you? The first time I was kissed, it was a guy I really liked that did it, so I'm not sure how to go about it, per se; he just sort of kissed me. I suppose it can come about naturally with some flirting on both of your parts to indicate what you want, or you can just be bold and kiss himher and see how that goes.

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  7. ForEsme - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by ForEsme Apr 23rd, 2012 at 1:28AM

    Just go with the flow.

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