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Im Sick Of This!!!!?

Everytime i goes out partying etc and my girlfriend is at home, she is texting me all the time, saying, im sad, depressed, worried, she wantes me there with here, she afraid im talking to girls, or girls talking to me etc, but when im out other times and she be out with her friends she wound never say anything like that, what will i say to her, im saying it to her next time i seen here, any advice plz??
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She would probably love it if when you're next out, you phoned her first and told her you miss her and can't wait to see her. Its probably a load of old flannel I know, but take it from me, if a girl thinks her man is thinking of her then she'll leave you alone.
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Posted Oct 2nd, 2009 at 7:04AM
she shoulds like she is jealous or something. Is she real insecure? I would tell her that the relationship needs trust & she needs to trust you. I sounds like she says those things to get your attention...she's feeling needy for whatever reason. Talk 2 her & see what's up...tell her 2 be honest with you & tell you if she is really depressed or sad...& if so is it just because you are out & she doesn't trust you? Or is she just saying things she doesn't mean 4 attention just cuz she doesn't want you going out with out her? Good luck.
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Posted Sep 28th, 2009 at 7:26PM
She is insecure and clingy
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 7:32PM
she sounds neurotic. do you really want to be with this girl?
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 7:53PM
possessive ...neurotic....do you enjoy ur social life???like this....
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 7:14PM
yep, give it right back at her
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 7:14PM
all i know is what my momma taught me and that is ,dont do anything you dont want the other person to do..... Just tell her that would she want you calling her and bothering her on her nights out, im sure she wouldnt.. so just nicely tell her that :)
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 7:15PM
Ask her the same things.. It is a trust issue from what I can see...
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 7:15PM
She sounds very insecure. I bet she was cheated on in past relationships. Tell her she is the only one for you, and that spending time apart helps you appreciate each other more.
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 7:21PM
Stop it now. I was in a relationship like that and tried to be understanding and appreciated that she was insecure e
tc, etc and just ended up wasting so many opportunities and eventually had hardly any friends left. We eventually split up and I bitterly regret falling for it all.

Right, thats it, this server is crap tonight, took me five mins to write that!
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 8:22PM
It takes some growing up....
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 8:27PM
Talk to her about it and let her know how you feel. Then, trust in God and let Him handle it from there.
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 11:25PM
You could try taking her out partying with you... isn't that what most couples do?
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Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 2:26AM
OOh that girl is drama and you are feeding into it. If you don't like the drama get rid of her. If you like her more than her drama cut off your phone when you go out, and deal with her after you get back.
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