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Im still in love with my ex but he has a new girl. But he begs me to be his friend. What should i do? :(

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    MzNutCase - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by MzNutCase Feb 20th, 2013 at 11:59PM

    Turn around and walk away. Your the one thats gonna get hurt. Its either hes just feeling bad for you so he said that, or keeping you as a reserve. Either way its not a good idea.

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17 Answers to "Im still in love with my ex but he has a new girl. But he begs me to be his friend. What should i do? :("

  1. rattleschains - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by rattleschains Feb 21st, 2013 at 12:02AM

    Force his hand, make the "future" start soon. Invite yourself along on dates, and be politely annoying to his new attempted girlfriend. He'll have to make up his mind.

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  2. CrazyCatie - 18-21 years old

    Reply by CrazyCatie Feb 21st, 2013 at 12:04AM

    he told me he wants to just give it time. but he thinks him and i will be together in the future. but in the same sense he is going to berkley next year.

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  3. Sunny109 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Sunny109 Feb 20th, 2013 at 11:59PM

    Sounds like emotional torture to me.

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  4. AngieloveLee1985 - 26-30 years old

    Posted by AngieloveLee1985 Feb 20th, 2013 at 11:58PM

    you are his just a back up option..like "just in case gurl"... i consider you to rethink .. list out the reason for why they are ex....

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  5. SpilledSecrets - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by SpilledSecrets Feb 20th, 2013 at 11:55PM

    Run the other way. That is a situation asking for trouble.

    You can't get over your ex if you're still in contact with him. i know it's tough but the best thing to do is delete him from your life and have fun with your friends until you're over him.

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  6. BeenSmiling - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by BeenSmiling Feb 20th, 2013 at 11:55PM

    Seduce his new girl and runaway with her.

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  7. slavesindee - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by slavesindee Feb 21st, 2013 at 12:59AM

    leave him alone he just wants to string you along for booty calls

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  8. LaFemmeRebelle - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by LaFemmeRebelle Feb 21st, 2013 at 12:45AM

    Kick him in the balls and tell him to **** off.

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  9. Mencrytoo - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Mencrytoo Feb 21st, 2013 at 12:13AM

    Don't remain friends for the wrong reasons. Don't be waiting in the wings for it to fail.

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  10. kalisse - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by kalisse Feb 21st, 2013 at 12:05AM

    Say no!!! Not a good mix at all!!! Putting urself out there like that is total bs and him asking is wrong. That's a disaster just waiting to happen
    do urself a favor and RUN!!!

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  11. luna3337 - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by luna3337 Feb 21st, 2013 at 12:05AM

    Dont be friends with him, dont have anything to do with him, it will make things a whole lot worse for you.

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  12. TheWomanWhoDid - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by TheWomanWhoDid Feb 21st, 2013 at 12:04AM

    If he's begging you to be his friend, run. He'll go to you for comfort when he fights with her and that will just hurt. Sorry, stay strong.

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  13. dvdvitka - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by dvdvitka Feb 20th, 2013 at 11:59PM

    Ex and I had coffee in the car,nice,pleasant,, one of the better time we had.
    Then we went in to the tax department,And I payed our taxes. Think ,over is over.

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  14. MrAmoxycillin - 22-25 years old

    Posted by MrAmoxycillin Feb 20th, 2013 at 11:57PM

    stay away..one day, her girl will blame you for anything. and you will be his rebound...

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  15. RoadWarrior3928 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by RoadWarrior3928 Feb 20th, 2013 at 11:56PM

    "Friends" is such a bad place to be, "Friends w/ benefits" now that's where it's at...

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  16. pillpopper2000 - 36-40 years old

    Posted by pillpopper2000 Feb 20th, 2013 at 11:56PM

    Stay away.

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  17. Dave748 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Dave748 Feb 20th, 2013 at 11:54PM

    Stay away from him until you aren't in love with him anymore.

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  18. CrazyCatie - 18-21 years old

    Reply by CrazyCatie Feb 20th, 2013 at 11:56PM

    He keeps telling me he loves me and wants us to be together in the future. I really dont want to move on.

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  19. Dave748 - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by Dave748 Feb 20th, 2013 at 11:58PM

    Then hes a player. Not the sort of person you want in your life. What is he doing with this other girl if he wants to be with you? I get that you don't want to move on, but you may have to move on.

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