There's nothing wrong with loving men, women do it, men do it. Can't be anything wrong with somethign everyone does.
Maybe you aren't as straight as you think you are.
I hate to BREAK it to u , but if yur falling in love with yur gay best friend ...yur NOT STRAIGHT
Don't label yourself.
Because clearly you have an connection with him.
you're mentally catching his gayness from hanging around him a lot
You're kindda growing. What I see is that you labelled yourself as straight, and then life happens and the identity "straight" as changes. Do you change and accept it? Fight it? or do nothing?
Don't restrict yourself to a label, but understand that being attracted to both sexes doesn't entitle you to have two significant others.
You'll have to date one or the other, one at a time, unless you're in an open relationship, which you're clearly not.
Who said because he may be bi he can have two partners? I think you've got a dirty mind.
I bring that up for two reasons:
1) Hollywood often makes it seem as though being bi entitles people to two partners.
2) He clearly likes two people and it's causing problems.
It sounds like she knew that, and she was wondering why I'd need to clarify that. It is a fairly common myth, at least in pop culture, so that's why I brought it up.
don't put too much stock in labels. don't identify with an orientation. orientation isn't even a static thing; it changes. you might be bisexual, but just as likely this might be the only guy you ever like.
it's confusing, I know. don't let it scare you. he's probably confused too, trying to figure out if he has a shot with you.