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Im straight , why am i falling in love with my gay best friend ? im scared , please help

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    GnatFree - 22-25 years old

    Posted by GnatFree Nov 15th, 2012 at 8:31PM

    There's nothing wrong with loving men, women do it, men do it. Can't be anything wrong with somethign everyone does.

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9 Answers to "Im straight , why am i falling in love with my gay best friend ? im scared , please help"

  1. oldaccount - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by oldaccount Nov 15th, 2012 at 8:48PM

    Don't label yourself.

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  2. taurasiwade - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by taurasiwade Nov 15th, 2012 at 8:38PM

    Because clearly you have an connection with him.

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  3. MelbaBlaine - 22-25 years old

    Posted by MelbaBlaine Nov 15th, 2012 at 9:33PM

    you're mentally catching his gayness from hanging around him a lot

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  4. anon1410 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by anon1410 Nov 15th, 2012 at 9:22PM

    You're kindda growing. What I see is that you labelled yourself as straight, and then life happens and the identity "straight" as changes. Do you change and accept it? Fight it? or do nothing?

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  5. 0ppa - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by 0ppa Nov 15th, 2012 at 9:12PM

    Maybe you aren't as straight as you think you are.

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  6. TheRQCKSTARZz0ne - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by TheRQCKSTARZz0ne Nov 15th, 2012 at 9:07PM

    I hate to BREAK it to u , but if yur falling in love with yur gay best friend ...yur NOT STRAIGHT

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  7. Rennn - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Rennn Nov 15th, 2012 at 8:58PM

    Don't restrict yourself to a label, but understand that being attracted to both sexes doesn't entitle you to have two significant others.

    You'll have to date one or the other, one at a time, unless you're in an open relationship, which you're clearly not.

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  8. GnatFree - 22-25 years old

    Reply by GnatFree Nov 15th, 2012 at 11:05PM

    Who said because he may be bi he can have two partners? I think you've got a dirty mind.

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  9. Rennn - male

    Reply by Rennn Nov 16th, 2012 at 1:46AM

    I bring that up for two reasons: 1) Hollywood often makes it seem as though being bi entitles people to two partners. 2) He clearly likes two people and it's causing problems.

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  10. slothlorien - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by slothlorien Nov 15th, 2012 at 8:47PM

    don't put too much stock in labels. don't identify with an orientation. orientation isn't even a static thing; it changes. you might be bisexual, but just as likely this might be the only guy you ever like.

    it's confusing, I know. don't let it scare you. he's probably confused too, trying to figure out if he has a shot with you.

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