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I'm torn between 2 very different guys, one has everything in common, the second hardly anything but I like the second?

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16 Answers to "I'm torn between 2 very different guys, one has everything in common, the second hardly anything but I like the second?"

  1. margarret - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by margarret Dec 29th, 2012 at 5:24PM

    Go with the one you like.

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  2. Stereoguy - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Stereoguy Dec 29th, 2012 at 5:29PM

    Go for the one you have everything in common with. It is true opposites attract, but after awhile the things you found exciting will get on your nerves. While the man you have everything in common with will be there for you and you will have many wonderful years with.

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  3. weeone750 - 36-40 years old

    Posted by weeone750 Dec 29th, 2012 at 5:25PM

    Close your eyes, who do you think of first? There's your answer.

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  4. brokenalways - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by brokenalways Dec 29th, 2012 at 5:24PM

    Don't be so greedy and pick one.
    'follow your heart' - as Mulan would say ;)

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  5. 137minutes - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by 137minutes Mar 14th, 2013 at 8:33PM

    If you're torn between two guys, then neither of them is right for you...

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  6. Fightforfreedomliveforpeace - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Fightforfreedomliveforpeace Mar 17th, 2013 at 10:21PM

    Exactly, that's what I ended up deciding on. I think that when someone really good for me comes along I won't be torn at all :) thanks

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  7. Jcoe - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by Jcoe Jan 28th, 2013 at 8:31AM

    Ir realy belive in poligamy, only the other way. Women should have as many husbands as they want. One to work , one to fix stuff, one to entertain. So 3 mínimum.

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  8. Colonattus - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by Colonattus Dec 29th, 2012 at 5:27PM

    follow your heart, the guy will be having things you like when you both decide, you can,t enforce your heart to like the first one.

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  9. MikeWinther - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by MikeWinther Dec 29th, 2012 at 5:27PM

    I have known people in the same scenario you are in. None of them are with those 2 people in question because neither had both qualities they were looking for

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  10. motherofzeno - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by motherofzeno Dec 29th, 2012 at 5:27PM

    Go on a date with both. Keep it simple. If you are still leaning toward the second, choose him.

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  11. SixStringRomance - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by SixStringRomance Dec 29th, 2012 at 5:27PM

    If you have to doubt, none of them.

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  12. Classicality7 - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Classicality7 Dec 29th, 2012 at 5:26PM

    Ask them each what they see an ideal average day in life looking like. That will give you a better insight into which one you might be happier living with. Also observe hygiene habits if this matters to you. I found out after I married that my husband isn't as hygienic as I thought he was and it's a major turn off.

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  13. edinburgh1964 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by edinburgh1964 Dec 29th, 2012 at 5:26PM

    go with the both of them sex will be a lot better

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  14. CaptainChunk - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by CaptainChunk Dec 29th, 2012 at 5:25PM

    This world is full of idiots, honestly

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  15. doneitagain - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by doneitagain Dec 29th, 2012 at 5:25PM

    Opposites attract but they also attack.Wait for someone else.You are young you have time.

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  16. Serenitree - 66-70 years old - female

    Posted by Serenitree Dec 29th, 2012 at 5:24PM

    Then you have a tough choice to make, unless only one of them likes you. Then you don't have to make a choice.

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  17. DistantLonging - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by DistantLonging Dec 29th, 2012 at 5:24PM

    Go for the second one. Opposites attract and you'll find yourself bored quickly with the first.

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  18. DistantLonging - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by DistantLonging Dec 29th, 2012 at 5:28PM

    According to what she said (unless I read the question incorrectly). :-)

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