Im trying to get along with my mums bf but hes making it difficult im walking on eggshells! He keeps starting arguments
...and ive told mum but she says she will tlak to him about it..i cant remember how many times i have had a talk with him to try and sort things out its stressing me out! Even little things like "Mark just while were eating can u put something on we all like" (on about TV) and his response was "Its always about you as soon as you walk in its all about you!" He has a right fit and makes a deal out of nothing! Its just fustrating me and i cant concentrate on anything...Tonight i wanted to wake up my mum whos fallen asleep on the sofa to make sure i can say night and i said "When are u waking mum up?" "Not yet shes tired!" "Well i wnt to say night to her soo make it soon please" "Jess she stired!" ETC!!!!!!!! ughh!! im sick of it now i want him out my life!!
4 Answers to "Im trying to get along with my mums bf but hes making it difficult im walking on eggshells! He keeps starting arguments"
Posted by lunarstrings Apr 27th, 2011 at 4:19PM
i think you gotta be smart and softly make sure he leaves and your mom never sees the bustard again..
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Posted by Brainyblonde Apr 27th, 2011 at 4:43PM
Obvioulsy, if your mother puts up with him, you will have to as well, At least, until you can leave home and live on your own. Meanwhile, make the assumption that you have lost this battle and try to stay away from him as much as you can. When you are around him, don't argue, even if he is being a pig; it won't help matters and, I am afraid, you mum will tend to take his side or at least ignore your situation. So just be polite to him and do not argue about anything no matter how right you are. Try to find a life away from your house. You need a break.
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Posted by deltadon Apr 27th, 2011 at 4:28PM
yur immature.......sorry
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Posted by Vessa Apr 27th, 2011 at 4:20PM
Well, I can kind of understand his problem with you waking your mom up just to say "good night" to her. That did seem a little odd...at your age anyway.
I think the best thing is to realize that you don't really have to "get along" with him. That, basically, he is your mom's friend and that you don't have much say in the matter as long as he isn't touching you or invading your privacy, as in coming into your room. Talking to your mom about it is the best approach, because really, it is her relationship that is causing the distress. I think it would be best if you just try not to interact with him for a while.
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