Change your attitude and people who are worth anyone's time will see that you are not an ugly person. People who bully and put others down are just miserable little boys and girls who have nothing for lives and will do anything to make someone else feel miserable so they can feel better.

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It seems that you BELIEVED people when they did whatever they did in treating you like ****... you have taken on THEIR opinion instead of maintaining a positive one as your self-image. So, see if you can change that. Whatever thoughts you have about yourself get projected before you, and people soak them up, reflecting them back to you... Its within your power to change your self-thoughts and image!<br />
Good fortune!

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I totally understand where you're coming from, but the people that hurt you were wrong. I know you felt you had to feel this way but you don't. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and in the heart. The fact that you loved so deeply, you were hurt even deeper. That's when you decide to change your life, fighting against life and the events that happened, you're actually hurting yourself. Accept what happened but don't own it. It's not your fault you went through this, but you can change it for the better. Be the very opposite of the abuse, and love and joy will flow into your life giving you the strength to forgive and forget. You have to be your own best friend or you're allowing the cycles of abuse to run your life. Start healing, letting it all go, for there's nothing you can do to change it. In stead expect a brighter tomorrow and let god heal your wounds and change your life. Healing starts when your ready to take that step.

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You learn to love yourself maybe then others will love you also. Anybody can find someone if they are not shallow. If you're unattractive and you want to spend your life with Miss America, I'm afraid that's just not going to happen. There's nothing abnormal about you--a lot of people <i>secretly</i> hate people too--only for different reasons than yours. My advice for you is to start loving yourself tonight. Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself all the things you love and like about yourself (inside and outside). Take a nice bath or shower and write down all the things you can do to show your mind, body and soul how much you love yourself. It doesn't hurt to pray every day (1-3x) at a certain time. Put God on your calendar.

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You're supposed to learn to love yourself and not worry about what ******** say. You'll do better that way. :)

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