I'm worried my sister, whom I love, is taking advantage of myself and my mom, financially. She's not working.?
She's left her job of many years and had a breakdown. She also had surgery that is still giving her difficulties. And her husband doesn't treat her good. They both drink, smoke and use pot. She's not looking for work at all and he doesn't work much, just a little under the table. We have helped them numerous times over many years but now she's not looking for work and claims she can't because she's so depressed. We're trying to be there for her emotionally. But it's getting to be a bit draining financially. How do you know when helping isn't helping anymore?