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In 2nd affair with only girl ever fallen in love with, first at 24 now 46. Married, want to split but can I?

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Assuming you already know about looking before you leap and grass being greener, etc, it might be a good idea to carefully and honestly examine your motives. If they are trustable, then the rest becomes fairly routine (ah, much easier to say that when I don't have to do it!).
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Posted Oct 29th, 2009 at 11:02AM
sure you can but its not easy
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Posted Oct 29th, 2009 at 11:05AM
Cheaters never prosper.
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Posted Oct 29th, 2009 at 11:13AM
Yeah, you can. I can't tell you if that is the right decision for you to make though.
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Posted Oct 29th, 2009 at 11:20AM
you have to split up with your wife or come clean with her and end the affair or live a lie and let the guilt destroy you...seek counseling no matter what so you can stop creating pain for everyone. especially yourself.
you are really afraid of intimacy and do not ever feel safe because you do not trust anyone as you know what you are capable of.
you really already know all this at some level but do not want to deal with the pain.
just do it so you can love and be really loved.

Mystichealer
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