Sounds like a co-dependent type of situation. It don't make sense, but you're drawn to it. Ain't all his fault. You gotta get yourself right before you can get a partnership right. Hard thing is, figuring out the real problem.
Great answer, this is definitely a co-dependant situation...two parties to blame.
i was in a similar situation...broke up with my ex so many times that i lost count and i got very abusive with myself. then one day i just couldnt believe that i love him so much and he still dint seem to care about the things he does to me. I mean i was no angel. Things went over board and one day i snapped out of it. I still love him and i need him but i love myself to much to love him.
Being the Maestro that I am, I have seen situations like this before and they never seem to workout because the individuals who are tangled within them never address the true relationship dysfunction.<br />
What are your relationship issues with this mate?<br />
That's your first question. Then,<br />
you need to determine if you are willing to work towards a resolution, as should your male interest. Both NEED to be on board in order to acheive a decision of resolution. If only one fights...well then, that's all that will continue to happen...Fights!<br />
Why do you go back?<br />
Well, I can't read your thoughts...something must stir your Eros.<br />
Emotion is a funny thing.<br />
It manipulates us.<br />
It contorts reality.<br />
It warps our ability to self control.<br />
It skews perception, and identifies with what we want to see...<br />
Emotion is an addictive elixir that often causes all of our delight, as well as, all of our ache...
hello, thinkandfeel <br />
two reasons come to mind<br />
1). your self esteem is rock bottom<br />
2). he has a great dic and knows how to use it<br />
PS i trusted and had trust broken three times before i finally walked away<br />
hope you find a way to make better decisions. with respect, from robbie
Three is definately not your lucky number !
In my case, I addressed the problems and he acknowledged those problems. But he would try to improve him 3 days and after that it goes back to where it was. .So yes, me too. enough is enough. It seems each time we did it, we got further away more
I would say after break up number two. Honestly...if he can;t see what a magical person you are, he doesn't deserve you
You like playing kiss and make up ?
zero self esteem