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In love with a man who lives 4 hours away and my ex (who I have kids with) wants me back...what should i do?

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    misseymoo - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by misseymoo Sep 12th, 2012 at 7:31AM

    Your ex is an EX for a reason... if the reasons why you split up are still unresolved, then going back could be a costly mistake for you and unsettle your children if it doesnt work out. (chances are that it wouldn't- WITHOUT the added complication of you being in love with someone else...!)
    I suggest you investigate the viability of a relationship with the other person rather than 'dig over old ground'... the 'weeds' will probably still be there..!

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16 Answers to "In love with a man who lives 4 hours away and my ex (who I have kids with) wants me back...what should i do?"

  1. KenWX - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by KenWX Sep 12th, 2012 at 7:23AM

    Buy a one way ticket to Thailand and get ****** by as many ladyboys as you can.

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  2. JerfoneMnLCBZTE - male

    Reply by JerfoneMnLCBZTE Sep 12th, 2012 at 8:21AM

    FUSKED UP THE ***.,,,. AWWWWWWWWWW YEAH!:D

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  3. steppingup - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by steppingup Sep 12th, 2012 at 8:21AM

    This sounds very famliar to a previous question you've asked. I would try to reconsile with the father of your children, but you cannot steal second base with your foot on first, so this will be ever challanging IF you keep investing in man #2 who is far away. Good luck my dear.

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  4. JerfoneMnLCBZTE - 16-17 years old - male

    Posted by JerfoneMnLCBZTE Sep 12th, 2012 at 8:19AM

    **** YEAH.


    4 HOURS.

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  5. TheRQCKSTARZz0ne - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by TheRQCKSTARZz0ne Sep 12th, 2012 at 7:46AM

    Right, let US tell u what ta do, so when it goes WRONG, u can come back n SCREAM at us?

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  6. Nychick4 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Nychick4 Sep 12th, 2012 at 8:50AM

    nope

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  7. TheRQCKSTARZz0ne - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by TheRQCKSTARZz0ne Sep 12th, 2012 at 9:06AM

    Go where your HEART is, ...or u WONT be happy

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  8. Ferric67 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by Ferric67 Sep 12th, 2012 at 7:45AM

    Just like a unicorn, Bigfoot or Nessie....
    Go with love. It's an elusive beast...and when it's within reach, do what you can to grab it...because you can accurately be able to predict if and when it ever comes around again.

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  9. Jonnyscrews - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by Jonnyscrews Sep 12th, 2012 at 7:38AM

    go with Posted by misseymoo Sep 12th, 2012 at 7:31AM answer

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  10. Temptressempress - 31-35 years old

    Posted by Temptressempress Sep 12th, 2012 at 7:37AM

    I'll choose who deserves my attention and my heart..

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  11. Pagan1 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Pagan1 Sep 12th, 2012 at 7:32AM

    First see that your children's needs are met...
    then address what's best to satisfy YOUR desires.

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  12. vickieprince - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by vickieprince Sep 12th, 2012 at 7:31AM

    Follow your heart..I think you already know the answer to this question...

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  13. prasuja01 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by prasuja01 Sep 12th, 2012 at 7:27AM

    If u dnt mind u only prefer ur x_bf

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  14. onwayout - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by onwayout Sep 12th, 2012 at 7:27AM

    Go with the man you love and who you know you can depend on. You shouldn't go back to your ex just because you have kids together. There has to be a personal connection between the two of you that is so intense, you can't imagine life without him. If you have another man who loves and cherishes you, that is a big deal and that doesn't come around all that often.

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  15. BamPow - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by BamPow Sep 12th, 2012 at 7:27AM

    Remember why your ex is your ex. If you move back in with him, the two of you will eventually get back into your old patterns after the initial phase is over, so you have to decide if you can now live with the things that caused you to break up the first time.

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  16. SilenceEvermore - 18-21 years old

    Posted by SilenceEvermore Sep 12th, 2012 at 7:24AM

    Go for the person you love, does he know you have kids?

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  17. Nychick4 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Nychick4 Sep 12th, 2012 at 7:38AM

    yes he know I have children. I live in NY and he in DC. I love him so much. I just die on the inside knowing that our time will come in two years and not now. I want to step our relationship up and have in not only in my life but know my family and children. I know he loves me and that we are a MATCH. I'm just being a child. I'm choosing out of fear and guilt. It's a shame.

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  18. SilenceEvermore - 18-21 years old

    Reply by SilenceEvermore Sep 12th, 2012 at 7:39AM

    You two can't visit one another?

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  19. Hirafu - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Hirafu Sep 12th, 2012 at 7:23AM

    Move in with the man you love.

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  20. Nychick4 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Nychick4 Sep 12th, 2012 at 8:48AM

    I want to but we have alot going on and moving my kids into a home with his children seems crazy. I would do it in a minute if he asked me.

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  21. TheBoyWonder - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by TheBoyWonder Sep 12th, 2012 at 7:22AM

    if you are in love then go with that, nothing else will work

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