In response of that question about phone locks... why does it seem normal to have your SO know your pass on your phone?
Seriously, I don't understand. Is it mandatory for your SO to know your phone lock so that they can look at your phone and snoop around? There are things that people talk about that should only remain between the two of them. Like when my friend tells me her deepest problems at the moment and I most certainly don't want my husband or even my boyfriend to know this, since it would be violating her privacy.