So, you are looking for an incubator
If your goals is for children.. Why not Adopt? There are kids needing homes... and with you being 55 Years old.. I think you would be great with a older child. 55 is a bit old to be having a baby! I mean.. you will be 73ish when the kids is just turning 18!
It all depends on how he looks and how you look.
No. Just realize it's very likely she just wants you for the money. Get a child through surrogacy and a mistress on the side.
Sorry to hear that. In that case, just get the surrogacy and a flesh light.