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I believe that it is. The technology today can bring people into intimate converstations and secret relationships, and I think its crap that some people believe that just because they havent physically touched the person YET, that makes it right. But they think that cybering, chatting up web cam workers while pleasuring themselves, and having sexually centered conversations with stangers is faithful. If there is nothing wrong with it, then there would be no need to hide it from your partner. I have caught my ex several times in these internet situations, he even had a profile with his private part pictures up on an adult sex site. And yet he claimes he never cheated. How can he really think that? Just because I caught him before he could screw someone else that makes it ok? Please tell me whether you think I am right, or he is right.

Does it really matter who is "right"? I mean he's your ex, right? Then who cares? It's only cheating if the one your cheating on thinks so. That can differ for ANY relationship. All relationships are as different as the people involved in them. There are married swingers, you know. But if you feel cheated on, then you were. But like I said before... Who cares if it's over? Find your own internet stud and tell him, "Thanks for the idea!"

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