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I let her think she's in charge, but since I always get my way about anything big, who cares how she arranges the furniture?

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I am laissez faire type of guy, although not female dominated relationship material per se...stronger women do better with me. (I tend to like my time and space, and I certainly don't like taking orders....but, I don't like commanding anyone, I feel that they are adults capable of making their own informed decisions).

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Lots women do the leading even if it's in a subtle way, and the men don't realise it. Then there are the other type or relationships that i think you are referring to which is where im at.

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I agree with you 100% . And yeah i think we mean the same type of relationship. For example in mine her desires go first then mine. And she decide must of the things between us

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Not so much a D/s relationship but more of her leading you would you say.

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and me

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I am but it's not being submissive it just suits our lifestyle we are equal but she is in charge

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How do that work?

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on a day to day basis we roll along together ,but we both know and accept that she is in charge, and I accept that and know that if I step out of line there will be consequencies.

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It started with my demanding job and not being able to take care of paying bills on time that was 15 years ago. She took over and now makes all financial decisions. From there it just seemed more natural for her to be in charge. I am naturally submissive and have no problem being told what to do. She complained that I manstubated too much so she asked if a few years ago if i would wear a chastity device. It is amazing how much that little device has changed my attitude toward our marriage and my desire to suport her leadership. She always includes me in serious decisions but makes the final choice. I wouldn't have it any other way. My efforts to make her happy in all ways, is returned more than I can say back to me. I could give numerous examples but if you can "get over yourself" and drop the ego, I believe most women are better suited to lead a marriage.

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I am. Submitting to my wife is pleasurable. She is a natural leader and we found that things are best when she's in charge. I am naturally submissive so things work very well.

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I am single cross dresser but would have no problem with that at all.

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Yes, I am. Not wanting it that way but my dear husband couldnt cope with the pressures of being the man of the house. His behaviour was somewhat baffling to me. Its sounds stupid, i guess I am quite naive, I googled about it and low and behold I discovered FLR. When I asked him if he wanted me to be the head of the house (hard for me as we are both Christians) he let out a massive sigh of relief and said YES. He isnt one to divulge what he wants from the relationship so I guess and push the barriers as far as he lets me. I dont expect him to do all the cleaning etc. He works full time and long hours. I dont expect him to massage me every evening or run my bath or pamper to my everyneed. What i look for is obedience mainly. We go at his pace which isnt probably the way to go in FLR but it works for us. Through pushing the bounderies I have discovered what he is into. He would put his foot down if I suggested something not to his liking. Its not I want all this weird stuff I just want him to be totally liberated to do what makes him feel whole. He likes some of the adult baby stuff but there again we only touch on it. He likes to be submissive so I work on finding ways to please him in that. This FLR isnt about me like I read it should be. Its about him and how I can discover to unleash his yearnings and desires so he can be completely himself in the safeness and privacy of his own home. He is who he is and although this has been a struggle for me to accept at times I am immensly proud of him that he can be himself.

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Almost - but not quite; my wife is tempted but is conscious of the commitment involved....

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