I let her think she's in charge, but since I always get my way about anything big, who cares how she arranges the furniture?
I am laissez faire type of guy, although not female dominated relationship material per se...stronger women do better with me. (I tend to like my time and space, and I certainly don't like taking orders....but, I don't like commanding anyone, I feel that they are adults capable of making their own informed decisions).
Lots women do the leading even if it's in a subtle way, and the men don't realise it. Then there are the other type or relationships that i think you are referring to which is where im at.
Not so much a D/s relationship but more of her leading you would you say.
I am but it's not being submissive it just suits our lifestyle we are equal but she is in charge
How do that work?
on a day to day basis we roll along together ,but we both know and accept that she is in charge, and I accept that and know that if I step out of line there will be consequencies.
It started with my demanding job and not being able to take care of paying bills on time that was 15 years ago. She took over and now makes all financial decisions. From there it just seemed more natural for her to be in charge. I am naturally submissive and have no problem being told what to do. She complained that I manstubated too much so she asked if a few years ago if i would wear a chastity device. It is amazing how much that little device has changed my attitude toward our marriage and my desire to suport her leadership. She always includes me in serious decisions but makes the final choice. I wouldn't have it any other way. My efforts to make her happy in all ways, is returned more than I can say back to me. I could give numerous examples but if you can "get over yourself" and drop the ego, I believe most women are better suited to lead a marriage.
I am. Submitting to my wife is pleasurable. She is a natural leader and we found that things are best when she's in charge. I am naturally submissive so things work very well.