Lots women do the leading even if it's in a subtle way, and the men don't realise it. Then there are the other type or relationships that i think you are referring to which is where im at.
Not so much a D/s relationship but more of her leading you would you say.
I thought they were all female led :)
I am laissez faire type of guy, although not female dominated relationship material per se...stronger women do better with me. (I tend to like my time and space, and I certainly don't like taking orders....but, I don't like commanding anyone, I feel that they are adults capable of making their own informed decisions).
I let her think she's in charge, but since I always get my way about anything big, who cares how she arranges the furniture?