Do you really think that people are going to respond well to someone that has just joined that has minimal info on their profile, whos first question is asking for money.
This is not a charity site. It is a site for chatting to people. I went to your profile to check which country you are in so I could try to give you advice but discovered its another person that has come to ask for money in the wrong place rather than advice
Aqua aerobics first and foremost, supports your weight plus a chance to have fun and socialise, Ask for a referral to a dietitian to check what you are actually eating and provide you with education to make better choices. There is also a scheme where people can be referred for free gym membership, re hab really, so a gentle exercise programme made just for you. Sorry about the DVTs not nice at all, but hoping that someone is going to send you money just is not going to happen I am afraid. Lots of help out there, be brave and ask, wishing you luck.