Is being a 21 year old virgin unattractive?
I'm a 21 year old junior in college, and I'm a guy. I've had little dating experience, honestly. I'm a bit weird and definitely socially awkward, so its hard for me to meet people. I've noticed a lot of girls my age are really experienced, and they tend to want guys who are similarly experienced. This has gotten me even more self-conscious and intimidated, and I was just wondering what other people thought.
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Posted by ChellyRocker Mar 8th, 2013 at 10:07PM
It is not unattractive.
It's nice to know that not everyone is throwing it away like it's nothing.
If there are girls/guys who make you feel cruddy for not having the experience then they're not worth your time; you'll eventually meet a girl who does admire it and it might be one of the reasons why she likes you.
Don't let anyone make you do something that you're not ready to do.
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Posted by sparke7722 Mar 8th, 2013 at 10:06PM
As a girl around that age, I don't find it unattractive. It may be a little unusual, but I actually see it as a positive. Like others have said, I find it kind of refreshing. It shows that it is something that you value, and don't take lightly. What is really unattractive to me are guys who brag about yesterday's drunken one-night stand. I bet some girls would find it really romantic if you told them that you were holding out for a special person. And don't be self conscious or intimidated by us girls, some of us are nice :)
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Posted by Mira798 Mar 8th, 2013 at 10:04PM
No !! it's not weird at all ,I really admire that ,,,someday you'll find the girl that really deserves sharing this very special moment with.. ;)))))
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Posted by JustGettingThroughIt Mar 8th, 2013 at 9:57PM
I think it is the opposite and is very attractive. I think it shows self respect and that you don't sleep around. It shows you value yourself. You are amazing and don't ever think otherwise.
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Posted by kamiru Mar 8th, 2013 at 9:55PM
there's nothing wrong if you're virgin still and you should be glad because virginity is important to a person it means you can wait enough and it should be give to your future wife not some random girl
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Posted by Henrysgirl Mar 8th, 2013 at 9:43PM
No, it's not at all unattractive!! I think that it's something to be proud of!! Don't ever sleep with someone because you feel like you should!
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Posted by madamfaustus Mar 8th, 2013 at 9:42PM
Only to shallow idiots.
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Posted by CakeisbetterthanSex Mar 8th, 2013 at 9:42PM
So..what you're saying is...
There's still time for me to convince you that Cake is in fact BETTER than Sex!?!?! (Without finding out the hard way)
....
THERE IS A GOD!!
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Posted by 2Anna Mar 8th, 2013 at 9:40PM
NO! I find it very refreshing. When the right girl comes along you will be glad you waited.
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Posted by cbk69 Mar 8th, 2013 at 9:38PM
It is a MUCH revered commodity that is TOTALLY marketable.
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Posted by lovehappinessmusic Mar 8th, 2013 at 9:37PM
i think its admirable
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Posted by vydyn Mar 8th, 2013 at 10:52PM
Only jealous ***** who lost their own virginity would think that is unattractive.
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Posted by HappyZappyZaperson Mar 8th, 2013 at 10:24PM
No. If a lot of girls are really experienced at your age...honestly think of how many guys they had to have been with to be REALLY experienced and so young too.
If I was single, I would rather have someone who waited or didn't have that much experience than someone who lost it at a really young age. It's better to wait for the person you're okay with losing it to, even if you end things after awhile. Someone you wouldn't regret.
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Posted by KooKooCachoo Mar 8th, 2013 at 10:23PM
God no it's not unattractive. I am not a 21 year old male but I am a 26 year old female and not only do I wish I was still a virgin but I would be with a guy who is a virgin. I don't think wether someone who as sex or not is important, it should be the last topic of conversation but its nothing to be ashamed of. Having sex isnt the only way to get off with someone either. Honestly if you are a really great guy then who gives a f if your a virgin. At 21 it's seriously not a big deal and anyone who thinks its a problem that your a virgin tell them to mind their own f'n buisness. At least if all else fails and you still don't feel good about being a virgin after reading this at least you know you dont have any STD'S, and thats gotta be a good thing right?
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Posted by naughtyguyfrompluto Mar 8th, 2013 at 10:20PM
I am 23 (soon about to be 24). I am a virgin and have had no dating experience. :D. But that doesn't make me weird. I am proud to be one and will even have no problem if I have to remain one through out my life. :D
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Posted by ritchflynn Mar 8th, 2013 at 10:08PM
Learn to get good with women by going out all the time. If your an insecure loser people won't give you a chance, if your a cool guy people will give you their full attention, and that includes hot girls too. You are the one that decides which one of those you want to be, it is through your actions and your desire to grow that you decide.
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Posted by taurasiwade Mar 8th, 2013 at 10:03PM
No
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Posted by SmugOrphan Mar 8th, 2013 at 9:53PM
Dont tell her-- just have at it.
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Posted by habatur Mar 8th, 2013 at 9:45PM
Man = Yes.
Woman = No.
9 more years to achieve wizard status!
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Posted by lingerieme Mar 8th, 2013 at 9:43PM
If it your goal to wait till you find the person who you want to spend the rest of your life with, then wait. There is too much put up on being with as many people as you can before you hit 30. Be proud of who you are and that you have morals that have held up as long as they have. Wait till you find the right one.
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