Anyone that has a broken heart knows what it is to live life. All those with cold hearts are to afraid to live life!
It's often hard in this day and age, to understand that many people don't care about you, just themselves, and that hurts any person who has emotions. We all have to be careful in our choices. There are good people out there, they just aren't always easy to find, or who we think they are!
It's never easy, as easy seems to always get your heart broken!
Then you know! You have to work at things to make them work, if your with another who won't work at it. You are the beneficiary of the loss as there will be someone out there that appreciates you.
At least if you are broken hearted you once really cared about something, and that something most likely made you happy at one point, thats all that matters. People will always let you down but its by doing so that you gain the experience to learn whats best for you and whats not.
I'm sure it isn't, because to be broken-hearted you had to experience the love and joy you so desperately want. To never have experienced that would be a shame really.
being cold hearted is a way of shutting yourself off that only seems to hurt yourself in the end
I promise it is and you can't let one jerk affect your entire life. One person shouldn't be allowed to have that much power over you. You deserve more than that!
Sweetie pie, you are still young. Sometimes we find love when we are not looking. Stop looking, enjoy yourself and it will happen. I'm saying learn from your past relationships and stay open to a new one
If you walk into something thinking you are going to fail or how badly is this going to end, then you are setting yourself up to fail. I would suggest figuring out where and why you have the need to do that. For me it was having my mother leave me when I needed her the I was alone at 14. I think once you figure that out you will find it easier to have the relationship you want.
It made me a very strong person. I'm not happy that it happened but I learned from it. :)
Not if you want a shot at real happiness. Sure, a broken heart is a miserable depressing experience, but at least you felt SOMETHING.
I know the feeling. Maybe try taking a break from dating/relationships for awhile?
Let me ask this first does a cold heart ever melt whereas a broken heart can mend?
I'll keep my broken heart, thanks.
Whatever comes naturally to you.
No. It is better to feel the warmth of love even to loose it shortly afterward than to never have felt anything but ice.
I'm sorry that's been your experiences so far but you are still quite young. I know it doesn't feel that way but I'm 44. I can look back at when I was 20something and remember how terminal everything felt. But life still goes on, wounds heal and you will eventually find someone who is decidedly not like those you've been with before. I hope better people bless you with their company sooner than later. Be well.
Yes it is.. You only become broken-hearted because you let another person do it to you.. It's not worth it..
I wish I had better advice than to not let anyone do it to you... I am going through it now.. This is the ONLY woman that has made me cry.. I am so sorry you are experiencing such pain and agony.. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy....
I am sorry you have experienced such sorrow... You will find that special person.. Just keep believing it.. It's the law of attraction.. It works..
Not in a million years.
When you are 70 years old and so cold hearted (bitter old men, bitter old ladies)... and you never married or if not married then at least found someone special to spend the rest of your life, the last 20 or so years of your life with...you'll still have a heart, it's impossible to completely numb it, and deep down inside, that heart will be YEARNING every second of every day to have a love, even if it means some rough times and though even at that age there is the possibility of heartbreak. I cried blood for the love of my life I may have lost (maybe I'll get him back, I don't know, it has been 7 years...and we are young but it was and is real love for me)...but I am so grateful to know real love than to be like a lizard or robot, or the bitter old people...it definitely is better to have love and lost than never to have loved at all, as Shakespeare said. it SUCKS to go through all the relationship drama and troubles and pains and heartache. sucks is an understatement. you know what's worse? loneliness. trust me. i've been through both. there were times i was so heartbroken...i just wanted him back so bad and felt i couldn't live. but when you are so damn lonely...you seriously get close to suicide, it's 10 times worse. anyway, i have a new guy of 2 years now and though i don't love him like the love of my life, we DO love each other and i am much less lonely than before when i was, well, alone...we go through HELL...but then we have heaven too. and the hell is worth the heaven. always.
i seem to think so...
Being cold hearted is by far better with romantic relationships than being broken hearted if you are the type of person that feels devastated after a break up. I think it is best for people that love deeply to be alone and to live their lives' serving others. When you realize that love within any human being remains as an infinite supply, you need to start enjoying life. Stop loving one person on a romantic level and love everyone. Love to coach a team full of kids. Love to run marathons. Love to donate your spare time to the elderly. Use that infinite supply of love you possess for something good versus a single human being that will potentially change their mind about you and leave you broken hearted again. Do not ever put yourself out there again. Only give up what you are willing to lose. Love yourself and help others. Be a good person and help people.
both as it depends upon the circumstances
Yes and no