Yes, if you are emotionally giving yourself to someone else, it is cheating. Especially if you ignore giving those emotions to your spouse. Would you get on the phone with someone thousands of miles away and have phone sex with them in front of your spouse? How would you feel if your spouse did it in front of you?
so if there is no emotional connection it's ok?
great i can have sex with no emotions.
You're a dog. Dogs have sex wherever and whenever, without a second thought. So carrry on with your humping. :D
It is emotional cheating.
Yes it is
yes. searching for emotional connection outside the relationship is cheating. It is unfair that you are not seeking that sort of attention from your significant other. If you significant other is not fulfilling your relationship demands then move on....better than burning any bridges