I would disagree. I think even God has his limits.
If me being sexually assualted was gods will then god can go choke on battery acid.
It's a fifty/fifty split as I see it. If you follow guide his will shall be done for you, but if you chose to do it your way many times you get the results of what you asked for. Some times he intervenes and sometimes he lets you learn from your mistakes.
No, your own will
No, god does not exist and therefore can not will anything to happen. What happens happens out of a mix of chance and causality.
You mean Odin's will? yeah.
God allows it to happen. That does not necessarily mean it was Gods will for it to happen or God caused it to happen.