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Posted by idolno1 Jul 23rd, 2012 at 9:39AM
People don't realize when they have sex with someone, they are giving and taking a part of someone onto themself and vice-versa. Mixing bodily fluids is just that and that stays with you forever. What impact does that have on someone, not sure, but most likely will have a negative one after awhile. People were never meant to have open and free sex llike this, it was only meant to be shared by two people from the opposite sex.
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Reply by babypowdernow Jul 23rd, 2012 at 3:07PM
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Reply by idolno1 Jul 24th, 2012 at 7:15AM
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Posted by AutumnSwan Jul 23rd, 2012 at 1:08PM
If a woman doesn't mind being nothing more than a man's receptacle, then no, it's not gross. For a man, it beats tissues and a bottle of Jergan's, I guess.
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Reply by IM23059 Jul 23rd, 2012 at 4:40PM
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Posted by Fiasco12 Jul 22nd, 2012 at 6:12AM
At the time it isn't but when it all goes wrong, which it usually does, you'll look back and think of the whole situation as gross..
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Reply by imlori Jul 23rd, 2012 at 10:49AM
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Posted by peza Jul 22nd, 2012 at 6:10AM
yeps.
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Posted by Bellatoris Jul 23rd, 2012 at 7:10AM
Probably not a good idea. Having sex purely in a physical sense devalues the intimacy of making love.
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Posted by echoscall Jul 23rd, 2012 at 2:58AM
Depends on the friendship, some can bear it others can't . Just think would u still be friends if there was no sex? If the answer is no well not truly friends , just mutual sexual attraction . Not gross but often very cold
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Posted by iduelol Jul 23rd, 2012 at 1:32AM
Only if you decide to see it that way.
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Posted by shelle48 Jul 22nd, 2012 at 7:51AM
Is that truly a friendship?
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Posted by Vries Jul 22nd, 2012 at 6:28AM
No, it's a good thing. I got several and I never regretted a single moment of it. It's just having pleasure with each other, nothing wrong with that.
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Posted by EatingCROW Jul 22nd, 2012 at 6:15AM
not gross, but not particularly smart either. ;)
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Posted by BabzEsq24 Jul 23rd, 2012 at 4:40PM
full of regrets and unwanted fluids
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Posted by AaronSousuke Jul 23rd, 2012 at 2:05PM
yes
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Posted by diannjoh Jul 23rd, 2012 at 1:42PM
I think it depends on your age. Not a good thing for teenagers or those in their 20s but an OK thing for older folks, like 40+. By then we pretty much see the world and other people as they really are and have different expectations for relationships.
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Posted by baron34 Jul 22nd, 2012 at 7:27AM
It's not up to me to judge others' lifestyles, but I personally find it considerably unhealthy for the human brain and more importantly, immoral.
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Posted by EarthlingWise Jul 22nd, 2012 at 6:50AM
Yes, gross oxymoron.
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Posted by Thatsmystyle77 Jul 22nd, 2012 at 6:50AM
yes, if its me..
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Posted by sexybillybob Jan 21st, 2013 at 4:30AM
Not sure why this is under food and drink.
No it's not gross I love all my friends with benefits just not in love with them.
Just haven't got all the **** that comes with having a girlfriend well saying that it kinder is as buying a gentleman I treat them like a princess.
and no one dates as such now we just kinder hung out.
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Posted by Meandmybestfriend Dec 18th, 2012 at 8:48PM
I have been friends with this guy for over 10 years. We decided to 'do it' with the agreement of that it would only be once cause of the circumstances we are in. im married hes engaged! We have always had an attraction to each other . Yes it was stupid on both our parts but it happened! Well that one time has led into 3 years now of us having the best sex imaginable!!! And we are still the best of friends with great benefits!!!!
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Posted by Pagan1 Aug 15th, 2012 at 10:42PM
Very satisfying to the sophisticated and enlightened intellects among us :)
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Posted by ImprisonedPuppet Jul 23rd, 2012 at 8:57PM
Eh. To me, it's like...whatever floats your boat. Whatever you need to get laid, lolz.
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