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Is he a tease or for real?

How can you really tell if a man is into you when he says sexy things to you. We are both married (unhappy and have been trying to work it out).and only see eachother in town and at football games...I cant tell if he is just a tease or is trying to feel me out for my response..He is younger...Im confused..My husband is a great father to our two boys, but has threatened to take them from me when I tried to talk about our porblems. I am just looking for a casual love relationship, obv nothing serious. The bible doesnt tell us how to deal with bad relationships just to stay with them..I dont agree with that. It s unhealthy. Why not just treat the symptom without hurting anything else? confused!
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He's flirting with you and wants to see how far he can go. Whether he is a tease or for real, only the two of you can figure that out.

I agree that as you're both still married, it would be a good idea to wait until your divorces come through.
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Posted Oct 8th, 2009 at 5:10PM
He probably is flirting with you (for real!) as for what he wants, If he really even wants anything beyond that - you'll never know unless you flirt back and talk with him.
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Posted Oct 4th, 2009 at 3:28PM
Sorry I would need more information to make a judgement, all I can say is trust your gut, what is it telling you?

AvalonX
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Posted Oct 4th, 2009 at 8:09PM
Guys don't tease. We're always up for a good ****.
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Posted Oct 4th, 2009 at 2:50PM
"I do", you said, one special day,
and in return the words "I will"
and although the love seems far away,
unseen, unfelt, it dwells there still,

and so this vulnerable place you sit,
a fire unkept, a lonely heart,
strange company enjoyed, the words just fit,
forgetting the vows 'till death do you part'

the answer lies in your original intent,
to love, for better and for worse,
to your spouse, true feelings you must vent,
your dying marriage you must nurse!

from an understanding ep member
xx
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Posted Oct 7th, 2009 at 2:40PM
He probably is flirting and does fancy you, but he may not be willing to leave his marriage for you. Also he may be saying that he is unhappy just to get some action, countless times I have known both men and women do this, maybe to ease their guilt.
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