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Is he afraid of commiting?

Am sorry if I wasn't able to provide enough details for the first couple of people, I am new to this site and needed someone to speak to so bad last night. So i guess I didn't do this correctly.



My boyfriend continues to talk to his friends about our relationship which makes me not want to trust him with any information about myself even though he is all I have becuase I am not that close to my family and plus I just relocated to his state to start our life together.

He has been caught texting another female about our relationship issues as well as talking in the late of the night about it too. We hardly see each other due to work and when the opportunity presents it's self so we could spend time together I am always the last option. I told him I need some sort of security from him and he needs to show that we have a future together. But eveytime we get into it he thinks it's about the ring. It kills me inside to not have anyone to talk to, I hope i was a little clearer.
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I think hes an *** you put all yourself into your life with him and he puts it out there to other people. All the friends in the world could not fix what is between two people only those two people can work it out by sharing you twos issues he is just making more. Try changing your approach with him mabey than he will talk with you.
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Posted Aug 2nd, 2009 at 3:50AM
Let me get my crystal ball................. Hmmmmm...... Yes, sweety, he is.
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Posted Aug 2nd, 2009 at 12:44AM
im not psychic sweetie so i dont know! Maybe if u gave a little more info someone might be able to help u decide
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Posted Aug 2nd, 2009 at 12:47AM
if you are asking then you must think so!!
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Posted Aug 2nd, 2009 at 12:51AM
I just read your story. I'm no relationship expert, but I'd say he is afraid. He shouldn't be going out with friends when you need him. You have a family now, and he needs to acknowledge you exist beyond his own needs.

I hope things get better for you. I really do. :)
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Posted Aug 2nd, 2009 at 12:57AM
I read your story...........it will not get any better. You need to find a real man or continue to put up with his crap. He wants you when he wants you.........he needs to grow up.
good luck your gonna need it
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Posted Aug 2nd, 2009 at 1:47AM
there is no such a thing like being afraid of commitment, he is just not into you enough.
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