He might like some things about you and dislike other things. So he misses the things he likes when you're gone and then sees the things he doesn't like when you're near. If this is the case, it would probably be more complicated than that explanation, but I've seen it before. I've done it a lot before.
He's in it for the boooooootyyy.
Steer clear IMO. He's a player who grabs at whoever's nearest at the time. So when he's away and he's NOT interested - not thinking about you - then who's he chasing? Do yourself a favor and stay disease-free. Because a kid like that's gonna catch SOMETHING.
Maybe that's why he drifts so easily - because you're not cheap 'n' easy. Something to think about, huh?
What's he playing at?
Simple: he's a playa.
I've never heard a girl called a player. A different term is usually used, and it exposes a common double-standard that's pretty unfair when you think about it.
its control and its a game.
Yep...it sure sounds that way.....you need to turn the tables,....take control.....
Sounds like it's time to sock him and finish this game