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Is he still interested?

I have been dating this guy exclusively for a month, everything is great. He wants to hang out all the time he calls me throughout the day always. We went out the night before last and had a great time. He stayed the night and we hung out most the day. He left to go home for awhile and was supposed to come back over for a movie later. He never called and I called him once and he never called back. He did call once today in the afternoon but I wasn't near my phone. I called him back and..no answer. He still hasn't called. This is not at all like him and I'm wondering if I did something wrong. What do you think? Am I overreacting?
Posted 4 months ago
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You may be overreacting, you may not be. It doesn't really matter, just so long as you don't let HIM know that. Try to talk to him and find out if there is cause for concern. It might just be beginning to hit him (how much you've been hanging out) and commitment issues may be coming in now. Sometimes people are like that, see if that's what it is, and if it is, then just take it slow, give him some space, tell him to go and do his own things but just to check in with you now and then (that being at least a ten-minute phone call every day or so).

Sometimes you spend so much time with someone and then it suddenly hits you that you no longer have a life outside of that person, and it's scary. You guys might be leaving the infatuation period, that doesn't mean things aren't good. You can't live exclusively on each other forever. Start getting back into your own things a little bit and being a little bit more independent (friends and hobby-wise). It might be time to work with each others' schedules instead of throwing out all schedules.

But remember to be open, don't assume (makes an ***...), and talk to him. Something may have just happened. The infatuation period may not be over yet, just having a hiccup. Good luck!
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Posted Jul 6th, 2009 at 7:08PM
I get like you to nervous when people just change their habits like that. Hang in there and give it time. If he really did change his mind at least you found out before the relationship went on for years and you now would be free to find a better guy that sees all the great stuff about you and want to make sure he calls you every day to say he is thinking about you.
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Posted Jul 6th, 2009 at 8:04PM
You know him!.....We do Not!



ASK HIM!!
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Posted Jul 6th, 2009 at 5:50PM
maybe he is trying to figure out his feelings. maybe he is busy. the point is you shouldn't worry about what you can't control.
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Posted Jul 6th, 2009 at 6:15PM
I question that you did anything wrong. You might wait and see if he calls later on, say a couple of hours, then if not you might try calling. If he was supposed to come back over and watch a flick with you he should have at least called you if he couldn't make it. That's not kosher in my book.
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Posted Jul 6th, 2009 at 8:24PM
The greatest gift you can give to a relationship is the gift of COMMUNICATION! You need to talk to him! If you're going to have a long term relationship with him you need to be able to talk and share your feelings.
:)
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Posted Jul 6th, 2009 at 9:20PM
in my dating experiance I have noticed one common pattern. If I have to ask the question that you asked. something is prolly not right meaning one of you inst 100 percent interested. Anytime I was in a relationship that lasted... there were no question. everything just flowed if that makes sense
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Posted Jul 6th, 2009 at 10:26PM
Hard to say but I agree about the communication. If you can open up and talk there will always be big problems in a relationship. Maybe not at first but eventually, unless of course communication is developed at some point.
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Posted Jul 7th, 2009 at 12:48PM
It hard to know what someone else is thinking. Why do we always blame ourselves? I know it's hard but give him time It just hit him how great you really are. He got scared don't let his fear play into you.

Good luck.
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