A functional alcoholic never stays that way. Eventually, he'll either slow down on the booze or lose control and hit rock bottom.
Yes, dump him. He's got issues and you're an enabler. I'm glad he has positive qualities though and not a complete loser. I'm glad he likes people. These qualities might help him get on with the hard work of fighting this. Alcoholism is strong.
Normally I would say dump the drug user, but since you don't put "m" or "f" on your profile you and he probably belong together.
If they are truly your soulmate then think long and hard before making any decision. If there are children involved you should leave until they get their act together. They will get worse if not treated and could possibly die. If you truly love this person you should sit them down and explain how much you love them and want them to be with you for a long time and you fear that they may die and try to get them help. Just because they aren't violent now doesn't mean they won't in future and think of all the damage they are doing to their body. Staying with them doesn't male you an enabler but letting them drink and do drugs around you does. Try to get them help if they refuse then you must think of your future and if their behavior is going affect your life in a negative way then you should move on but if you support them getting clean you may have a bright future together. Good luck
nope you gots yourself a winner
Have you heard of alonon you should find a meeting inyour area and see if ur questions can be answered
depends what you want in your life...think very very carefully.
Here's the deal. His drinking is pretty much guaranteed to get worse and worse. Alcoholism is a very progressive disease. It's your choice as to whether not you want to have to deal with that.
I did. Frak that bullshite
whats the future hold for you?if children,the drugs and alchol damages child.i'd say yes,you call the shot's from now on.and where does alchol go?more alchol.
Soul mate? look up agenticity
lol, your answer to every Q
A lot can be correlated with this; Just spreading the info.
Only you can make that decision
Both of u go to counseling