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Is it a good Idea to change for some one? good/bad reasons to change?

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  1. damselfly - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by damselfly Jun 29th, 2012 at 4:01PM

    If you mean slipping into something more comfortable at the end of the day, it's a great idea to change for someone.

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  2. ElvenLady - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by ElvenLady Aug 27th, 2012 at 11:24PM

    You shouldn't change for someone else. if they don't love you for who you are right now then it's not ever going to work, ever. It's lies.
    For the other person, It's falling in love with someone that doesn't exist. it's having lost the person you loved because they were never real. It's being entrapped into a relationship that should never have happen. it's a broken heart time bomb. it's unfair and a waste of both your time and you'll only both end up getting hurt in the long run.

    If however you don't like who you are, then change ***[[[for yourself]]]*** and don't expect that person to love you and don't fool that person into loving you. Just strive to be the person you would like to be every single day. Live and let live.

    if you really love the person, you won't do that to them, you won't deceive them and automatically hurt them even if it only comes to light years from now, it will and the pain will be horrible and the betrayal will be unforgivable and knowing it could have been avoided will make it worst. :(

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  3. blingblogbloop - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by blingblogbloop Jun 2nd, 2012 at 5:34PM

    when you are with someone especially long term you do change to an extent even if you dont realize it but for the most part u stay the same.

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  4. whatzlogin - 16-17 years old - male

    Reply by whatzlogin Jun 2nd, 2012 at 5:49PM

    good answer, I really meant changing b4 your going out with them tho, changing for them to like you.

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  5. ElvenLady - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by ElvenLady Aug 27th, 2012 at 11:18PM

    no because that would make them love someone you really aren't. Then that would lead to problems... it always happens that way because it's so much of an effort to change that you revert back for the most part when you stop making the effort...then they wonder why you changed blah blah blah and it ends in divorce

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  6. GlassButterfly - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by GlassButterfly Jun 2nd, 2012 at 5:33PM

    It's good to grow into a better you because you are influenced by someone else.

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  7. whatzlogin - 16-17 years old - male

    Reply by whatzlogin Jun 2nd, 2012 at 5:49PM

    :/ what if changing makes things worse :/

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  8. GlassButterfly - 51-55 years old - female

    Reply by GlassButterfly Jun 2nd, 2012 at 6:02PM

    If the changes make you a better person then how than things be worse?

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