By loving yourself, you don't need the approval of others, but as humans, we all long to be loved by others as well. You just need not be dependent on others' love. It's not weakness, it's admiration.
In order to love yourself you gotta mold you and make YOU how you wana be not what other peoples expectations/interpretation of you they want to be when you start living by YOU then you will develop self confidence naturally you dont gotta be narcissistic you can have the best of both worlds but aint nothin gonna happen until you MAKE IT HAPPEN!
It's not a sign of weakness, not at all. It's natural to want to connect with someone else, and something most people seek, no matter how strong their self-esteem. It's more unusual to not have that desire.
Maybe people who desperately want love, or to be loved, do lack self esteem. That would make sense to me. I don't see why confident people can't find love, however. It's not like you only have a certain amount of love to divide between yourself and other people; i think it's perfectly natural to love yourself and someone else completely.
No. You seem preoccupied with being a strong person, which I don't understand. I think denying your desires is a weakness.
don't no who sold you that boat load of crap, not even sure that would be good for a garden ;-)
Not that I know of :-/