Is it always the girls fault that she can't seem to find a guy that will treat her right?
12 Answers to "Is it always the girls fault that she can't seem to find a guy that will treat her right?"
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If she dates a couple of jerks, it's not her fault. She maybe made some bad decisions a couple of times. But if she consistently dates jerks, then yes, it's totally her fault. She should look into some personal growth, and chose better men. There ARE warning signs you know.
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It's partially her fault, too.
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No it's not. It's depends on how she was brought up during her childhood , what things she weren't taught about valuing herself and how her mind works. If my mom taught me properly and that she made sure I grew up with my self esteem intact and made sure I am ok at school, I wouldn't be in this frigging mess in the first place but I do take some responsibilitys myself too because once I knew and for some reason I chose the wrong guy again so I don't know how to break the vicious chain.
If you are a male, would you like it if I had said that all men are dogs?
I am the girl who can't seem to find a guy that would her right as well.Like (1)
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No!.. it's the girls Dad's fault!
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When they do they screw it up, so why does it matter?
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mostly,girl mostly like stupid fellow and they come to realize it later
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I know a woman who was married to a man who hand cuffed her to the coffee table naked, and then left the house and came back with his drinking buddies... and she stayed with him after that for years. All her husbands and boyfriends have been terrible people. She obviously is used to it for some reason, and maybe it's because of trauma in her childhood, but the only person that can break the cycle is you.
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Yes. Because it is her choice and we teach people how to treat us. It is also a man's fault for ending up with women of a certain type. I think sometimes we just attract those sorts of people.. I attracted bad boys for YEARS because I felt I deserved that treatment deep down, and they treated me only as well as I treated myself.. which was hateful. I was mean to myself so I needed, in a way, to attract men that mirrored my beliefs whether I was conscious of it at the time or not. To confirm my belief that I wasn't quite enough you know? When I started loving myself and stopped looking for affection/approval in men... the perfect man came into my life and he treats me like a queen, with so much playfulness, respect and joy. It's my fault I attracted negative partners in the past and it is my fault also that I now have a wonderful partner.
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Well she really can choose whether or not she wants to be with certain people. I'm sure no one forces her to be with anyone.
If this is a constant thing .. then she needs to stop getting involved with the same type of guy. She has to realize she deserves better ... and find it.Like (1)
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Once or twice? No. After that? Yes. Every time.
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i dont think so. I think some people try to look for girls to take advantage of.
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by editor1979 1 Nov 30th, 2012 at 1:27PM
Partially, it's the girls fall for choosing a bunch of ********, but it's also the guys fault for being ********.
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