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Is it appropriate for my wife to "privately" go to ex's place to be alone w/him, though I've asked her not to?

Through my own hurting emotional state just finding out this, my wife giving me a hard time, and of others I've polled, the vast majority of whom, have stated that it is highly inappropriate no matter what, but especially considering the fact that I've let my wife know my feelings and she blows them off. I've mentioned to her that I realize that they have a 28 year old in common, and if she occasionally see's this recently unattached ex-husband in "public," I would logically understand this, but certainly not in a private sitting on a couch and watching movies together, etc.

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    Lochlee - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Lochlee Feb 22nd, 2010 at 12:38AM

    No, it's not okay.. If you have expressed your wish, which seems quite reasonable to me, she should comply. Suggest going with next time to 'visit' him.

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  1. BBUDS - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by BBUDS Feb 20th, 2010 at 9:06AM

    It is absolutely not okay. You should do something about it.

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